No need for negativity in your life.
We’ve all had our fair share of drama. Maybe it was about a boy you liked or were dating, and things just were not going as planned. Or maybe you and your parents were just not seeing eye to eye about an issue. You’ve tried to take care of the drama yourself, but seem to have no luck doing so.
That’s what your friends are for! You know you can go to them to talk about anything and while you hope they’ll take your side, they’ll also tell you the truth. They’ll give you the advice you need to hear or tell you when you’re completely overreacting about a situation.
Maybe you don’t even want to think about your own drama or get advice, you just want to take your mind off of it. So, of course, you turn to your friends. There is no one better to keep you busy and keep you laughing.
They will help you with whatever you’re going through.
But what about when it’s your friend who is creating the drama? Or when her life is just so drama filled that you don’t think you can take it anymore. You’ve gone to her for help but somehow end up being the one to give her advice… again.
Of course, you don’t mind being there for her like she’s been there for you. But lately, she hasn’t been there for you because her own life is just so dramatic that she believes it takes priority.
At that point, you may feel you need to find someone else to go to and separate yourselves for a while until you both figure your drama out.
Or worse, your friend is just completely creating drama among you and your other friends out of nothing. She goes after the same guy as you or another friend, or your ex, even though you told her that is not cool. You just don’t need this kind of girl drama in your life.
When you’re in a situation like this, it’s easy to see that you’re not happy and it’s not healthy. So what can you do? Use these quotes about being completely over dealing with all the friend drama to inspire you to action. Will you rise above, or will you cut it out of your life?
“Just because some people are fueled by drama doesn’t mean you have to attend their performance.”
“I refuse to entertain negativity. Life is too big and time is too short to get caught up in empty drama.”
Sometimes the easiest way to solve a problem is to stop participating in the problem.” — Jonathan Mead
“My hobbies include having no time for bullshit.”
“I didn’t cause it. I can’t control it. I can’t cure it. But I won’t condone it.”
“I decided to put as much effort into contacting you as you do with me — that’s why we don’t talk anymore.”
“Breaking news: I don’t care.”
“The best way to deal with someone that only wants you when it’s convenient to them is to not deal with them at all.”
“The people in your life should be a source of reducing stress, not causing more of it.”
“If it costs you your peace it’s too expensive.”
“Never let the stupid drama stress you.”
“Walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it. It’s your life. Do what makes you happy.”
“No drama llama.”
“Some people create their own storms, then get upset when it rains.”
“If you have to force it, leave it. Relationships. Friendships. Yoga poses. Perfect pony tails. Let that shit go.”
“There is a difference between giving up and knowing when you have had enough.”
“Sometimes you have to separate yourself from everyone and just focus on doing you.”
“Surround yourself with girlfriends that push you to be and do better. No drama or mess.”