shayarisms4lovers June18 231 - 25 Quotes That Prove Being Single Is FUN & Should Be Celebrated — Not A Reason To Be Sad

25 Quotes That Prove Being Single Is FUN & Should Be Celebrated — Not A Reason To Be Sad

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25 quotes that show you why being single isn’t a bad thing.

The other day I was scrolling through facebook and looking at random blog posts and articles and I saw 3 or 4 articles in a row talking about being single and sad. They talked about how to reel in the perfect guy, how to cope with being single, how to make sure you make the right impression and how to give off signs that you’re open and available.

Part of me wondered why, all of a sudden, being single seen as such a negative thing?

Single life can sometimes be lonely, for obvious reasons. We are social creatures, and we love being cozy with someone we love, which can make it hard to be alone. It’s natural to crave that kind of closeness and intimacy that comes with romantic relationships.

But, honestly, single life can also be one of the best things to happen to you — especially if you’re leaving a toxic relationship or taking some time to find yourself.

Being single doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you or that you’ll never fall in love. It just means that you’re content on your own and able to take time for yourself.

Being single means you can eat half a gallon of ice cream without sharing, and you get to prioritize your own wants and needs without having to make compromises. What’s so bad about that? 

The truth is that I don’t want a man in my life if I don’t think he will genuinely make my life better by being a part of it. I would rather stay single and content with the life I’ve built for myself than deal with a relationship that doesn’t add to my life in a positive way.

There is something to be said for taking the time to just enjoy your life and be happy on your own.

I’ll be honest, I didn’t understand why people say that you have to love yourself before you love someone else for a long time. But, when you’re happy with who you are and the life you live, you have a much more solid base walking into a relationship when you’re ready. And the other thing is that just because there’s someone around that you COULD date, doesn’t mean you should.

Staying single isn’t a bad choice.

Being single isn’t a bad thing, …

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shayarisms4lovers June18 255 - 25 Famous 90s Movie Quotes Every Single Girl Can Relate To

25 Famous 90s Movie Quotes Every Single Girl Can Relate To

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Ah, the 90s. It was a simpler time when people didn’t have to worry about things like social media, cell phones and dating apps.

Being a single woman these days is exciting, but it can be a struggle too. We are juggling things like careers, friends, dating and sex. Then, of course, there’s the pressure we get from society to fit a certain mold.

With social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, women are under more scrutiny than ever before; As if we didn’t already have it hard enough.

We are bombarded with reminders of what everyone is accomplishing and maybe we just aren’t there yet.

For many of us, a good nostalgia trip watching some of our favorite films from back in the day can be the best medicine after a stressful week. These films taught us about love and life, and they helped shape us into the women we are today. They made us laugh and made us cry. There’s also a good chance they even gave us our first crush too.

Yeah, looking at you, Jack Dawson.

When we are feeling a bunch of emotions, whether good or bad, sometimes the best way of expressing ourselves can be through quotes. They can be quotes about love, friendship quotes, depression, frustration, or even funny quotes.

Films that defined our youth are extra special, because we feel like the screenwriters understood us. Not only are they saying what we want to express to the world, but they also take us back to a happier time.


For the single women out there, it’s easy to feel like the world just doesn’t get us. Maybe our parents are questioning our career choices, or that guy we slept with is probably, in fact, an idiot. Sometimes we could use a good reminder of how strong we are and that we are not alone.

So look to these nostalgic 90s movie quotes for the single woman for comfort, maybe some laughs, and a little reminder that you’re lovely just the way you are — whether or not you’re in a relationship.


1. The shortest romance can mean the most.

“All this nothing has meant more to me than so many somethings.” — You’ve Got Mail


2. We don’t always kiss and tell.

“A woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets.” — Titanic


3. Being an adult is never easy.

“I’m not

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shayarisms4lovers June18 213 - 25 Feel-Good Quotes About Being Single To Keep You Happy (& Thriving!) Through Valentine's Day

25 Feel-Good Quotes About Being Single To Keep You Happy (& Thriving!) Through Valentine’s Day

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Single looks good on you.

In a society where a high value is placed on relationships, it can be hard to be single.

As a single person it can become easy to doubt your worth and feel like you aren’t good enough to be loved. This can cause you to feel scarily alone. After some time, you might begin to accept that maybe relationships just aren’t for you. You make peace with that up until February rolls around.

February is the month of Valentine’s Day, and while everyone gets excited to celebrate love and affection, you get sad. The day is a reminder that you still don’t have a lover.


When you start to feel like this, take a deep breath and then snap out of it. This is the critical moment in which you must decide if you are going to either feel sorry for yourself or if you are going to realize how bomb you are. Hopefully you’ll choose the latter option.


Being single is not for the weak. It is for the people who are strong and committed to bettering themselves. It is for people who realize their worth and who would therefore rather be alone than to settle for less than they deserve.

So look at the bright side of things and think about all the benefits that single life has to offer. You have complete and utter freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want. You get the opportunity to learn more about yourself, your likes, dislikes, strengths and weaknesses. You realize that your happiness is dependent upon no one, and you get the best sleep at night knowing this. Most importantly, you learn to love and approve of yourself.

In case you start to get the urge to feel bad about yourself or get the urge to jump into a relationship just for the sake of it, here are 25 quotes to remind you of how great being single can truly be and how strong and beautiful you have to be to thrive and survive during this time.


1. The wait might be long but it’ll be worth it.

“Stay single until someone actually compliments your life in a way that makes it better to not be single. If not, it’s not worth it.” — Unknown


2. You deserve nothing short of amazing.

“Yeah, I’m single, but you’re gonna have to be amazing

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