30 Quotes To Help You Deal When You’re At Your Wit’s End

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Breakups are never easy.

There are times in everyone’s life when life gets tough and brutal, and there’s a point where you are just over it. Your breaking point has been reached. There are steps you can take to make you feel better eventually. There are no quick fixes — feeling it out is the only way.

You need to accept that there’s no going back. No wishes for hope, no stressing about “what could have been” the reality is that it is over.

Deep down we all are like that child who cries to his mom because she got hurt playing on the swing, we all need to let out our emotions. Having times in your day where you can cry, punch a pillow, or just scream will do wonders to your attitude later on. When we don’t let out or emotions we bottle it in and eventually that will pop out no matter what. Whether it is you cutting someone off or you cursing off a loved one.

It’s important to not fall into a victim mentality. When you’re in pain you want the other person who did this to suffer. You want them to pay but that’s just not the reality, the only thing you can control is how you act about it.

Focus on where you are at right now, not where you were 20 days ago. Focusing on the past too much will lead you to now enjoying the present. If you’re out with your friends then enjoy a night with your friends, don’t focus on what happened a while back.

Forgiving the person who wronged you is the last step. It isn’t weakness but the path towards creating a better future for you.

Moving on is much easier said than done. It can take days, months — years even. It will ultimately happen though if you follow those steps, and in the meantime here is some of the best quotes for when you’re over it so you can let go of all of the frustration you must have right now.

1. There’s always a rainbow after the rain.

“When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.”Paulo Coelho

2. Make light out of darkness.

“Heartbroken? Channel your sorrow to become worthy of love. The world will be yours. “― Tapan Ghosh

3. Figure out who you are.

One of

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28 Feel Better Quotes To Pick You Back Up When Your Stupid Crush Won’t Text You Back

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Block their number and order another margarita.

“Alexa, play Truth Hurts by Lizzo, please!” Ladies, I totally get it. Summertime is ramping up and this heat is driving us a little love crazy. Who hasn’t been tempted to do as Sandy Dumbrowski did and pine after her “summer lovin’?” Well, don’t get carried away and start an online shopping rabbit hole for leather pants and red heels! We don’t have time to waste on those boy crushes who aren’t deserving of our energy.

You may be thinking, “How did I even get here? Everything was going so well!” and honey, that’s how it always goes. You went on two or three hyper-romantic dates with a new fling and really hit it off. Maybe one drink turned into four and time truly slipped away. You see a future in this person, but, unfortunately, the feelings are just not mutual. He’s just ghosted you and you’re left in the lurch.

Madison Kerth is a writer who writes about love, relationships, self-care, spirituality and astrology.

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18 Best Songs That Perfectly Describe What Falling Head-Over-Heels In Love Feels Like

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Songs often hold the answers that we don’t have.

Music has been around for as long as life itself. Throughout the years talented individuals have been providing us the soundtracks for all of our biggest moments. From falling head-over-heels in love to weddings to graduations to birthdays, nothing makes a moment perfect quite like a good song.

But beyond soundtracks, sometimes music fills a bigger role. It can comfort us in our time of need, motivate us to work hard or even help us figure out how we feel. Music can be the emotional guidebook that we weren’t ever given.

When we look for answers in music there’s really no telling what we’ll find. Maybe you find that perfect song that makes you think “this is about me!” Or maybe while looking for new music, you find what you think is the weirdest song ever.

Probably the most common theme in songs is love. I mean, it’s the feeling that’s always in the air right? You can search for love songs on Google and get thousands of results. But just because you find one doesn’t mean it will give you an answer.

There are so many different kinds of love. Is the song about love for a person? Love for a dog? How about a love of food? It can be hard to tell sometimes.

Falling in love is an emotional rollercoaster. There are times where it seems clear as day, and other times when you are just so absolutely confused. You might start asking yourself, “what is love? Do I really know?” If you asked 100 people that question, you’d probably get 100 different answers. It’s not really clear cut, but luckily there’s always music and song lyrics about love to point you in the right direction.

It’s true that you may find just as many different answers, but you can think of it as a love search bar. Want to know what heartbreak feels like? Or how about love at first sight?

No matter the wondering, it’s nearly a guarantee that there’s a song about it. So take a look at our collection of the best love songs and emotional song lyrics about love that will hit you right in the feels.

1. What Is Love by Haddaway

To be honest, this song doesn’t really answer the question. It’s mostly just Haddaway repeating this same lyric over and …

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shayarisms4lovers June18 81 - 20 Love Poems To Help You Win Back Her Love

20 Love Poems To Help You Win Back Her Love

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You can’t lose with these.

Sometimes, when you break up with someone, the love you have for them still stays strong — so you do what you can to try to win them back.

Wooing an old lover may seem like a difficult task. What can you possibly do to steal her heart again?

You could try to make a romantic statement by running after her at a train station or airport (like in the movies!). But unless she’s traveling soon, you won’t get many opportunities for that.

You could throw pebbles at her bedroom window to get her to talk to you. But that’s something that’s only romantic in movies and sort of creepy in real life.

When it comes to sweeping someone off their feet, sometimes it’s the small things that count.

Love poems are a great way to let someone know how you feel about them. They are short, simple, and to-the-point.

But don’t worry, you don’t have to be Shakespeare to win her over. You can send her poems from one of our favorite poets, from Lang Leav to Robert Browning.

So, continue reading below for some short, sweet love poems that will be sure to win her over.

1. Tell her what she is to you.

You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and most beautiful person i have ever known — and even that is an understatement.” — F. Scott Fitzgerald

2. Tell her how much you miss her.

“To know that I miss you so much when you leave; to know that I need you like the air that I breathe. To know that I want you with a passion so blind, is to know that I love you — with no doubt it my mind.” — Lang Leav

3. Tell her that you can’t go on without her.

“I never fully realized what it meant to hurt (to truly hurt) until I wanted you to such a great extent, only to have no other choice but to convince myself that I didn’t.”

4. Tell her you still think of her.

“I still search for you in crowds, in empty fields and soaring clouds. In city lights and passing cars, on winding roads and wishing stars. I wonder where you could be now, for years I’ve not said your name out loud. And long since I called you mine — time has passed for …

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20 Relatable Quotes For Anyone Who Has Ever Been Dumped By A Friend

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Mourning the loss of a friendship.

When researching quotes for this article, I was trying to find quotes that really captured the heart break of losing a friend. Because that’s what it is: breaking up with a friend is heartbreaking.

When you become friends with someone, truly great friends, you welcome them into your heart. You give them pieces of you. You share hair-ties and secrets and promises of forever. To separate from a friend is to rip out the corner of your heart where they took up space. You are forever altered.

One thing I found disappointing is that most of the quotes I found about lost friendships were bitter. They were angry and cold. Denying that ever a friendship took place. Saying things like “I’ve never lost a friend, but I realized I never truly had one“. What a cruel thing to do to your memory. To distort all of your happiest days into a still picture cut by shards of pain masquerading as hate.

We need to face our hurt feelings with honesty. What we are feeling when we break up with a friend may be anger on the surface, but that is only to cover the hurt we are trying to bury.

The mourning we have planted deep inside of us. In a time of so much loss, don’t add to it by taking back your happy recollections. Don’t rob yourself of your happy thoughts, or one day pixie dust won’t be enough to lift you off the ground. You will be too weighed down by your own resentments.

Take time to mourn. Don’t forget the happy moments because it hurts less. It’s worth the honesty of the pain, for the future of the memory.

1. Loss of love doesn’t have to be solely romantic.

“Friendships cause heartbreaks too” —Wolftyla

2. Sometimes we grow apart from even our most loyal friends.

“Slowly as the years go on, you lose people you never thought you would.”—​Xzavior Zulu

3. If a friend allows themselves to be lost, then be willing to let go.

“You don’t lose friends, because real friends can never be lost. You lose people masquerading as friends, and you’re better for it.”—​ Mandy Hale

4. The loss of a friend isn’t the loss of your life.

“Some people are going to leave, but that’s not the end of your story. That

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MY SCHOOL CRUSH

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Excerpt: Those words killed my spirit because I thought he loved me , then it clicked he just wanted me for the benefits

I have always loved writing anything, be it prose, poem or motivational notes with an end point of entertaining and inspiring lives. Sitting in one of my favourite coffee  shops with a cup of cappuccino on the table as I wrote on my diary. The events of the day seemed to be a major fun for me as I got to share all my secret fantasies and my exciting and boring days with my diary. My diary has become my companion after Jack Richardson, the popular guy in high school and my school crush who broke up with me and started dating one of the sorority girls in school after dumping several numerous girls on different occasions.

I always thought that jack was my life till I broke up with him and learnt that I own my life . We had a beautiful relationship, if not the best but the problem started when jack started acting like a jerk while flirting with other girls in my face. Yes I know he was a major flirt right from  the time he asked me to be his girl, but I was foolish to believe all the lies he told me about loving me and subdueing his flirting habits, which BOOM! I agreed to be his girl . I practically worshipped him and he took advantage of my naiveness or rather stupidity and played on me and when I confronted him about it , guess what he told me “only I have eyes for you. do you  actually think you can attract any dude ? you are damn lucky i am having a relationship with a nerd like you. Look at your clothes ,your glasses, your shoes ,you don,t excite me with those looks”.

Those words killed my spirit  because I thought he loved me , then it clicked he just wanted me for the benefits which included staying sleepless nights doing his assignments. I was just a means to an end and when he could no longer handle it he started irritating me so that I quit. “You are a selfish ba**ard son of a b**ch, you as**ole and No you are very wrong ,you are damn lucky to have me in your life and you will regret ever

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shayarisms4lovers June18 233 - 25 Lana Del Rey Quotes & Song Lyrics Everyone Who's Ever Had Their Heart Broken Can Relate To

25 Lana Del Rey Quotes & Song Lyrics Everyone Who’s Ever Had Their Heart Broken Can Relate To

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She understands heartbreak.

Lana Del Rey has an old soul and powerful lyric-writing skills. She’s a lot more mainstream these days, but I would still consider her as a type of alternative music.

Lana is known for her somber songs with deep lyrics guaranteed to make anyone feel something. She’s so skilled at turning her hurricane of thoughts, whether happy or dark, into beautiful works of musical art.

I’ve been a huge Lana Del Rey fan since 2013 and when I first discovered her, I couldn’t believe that one person could have such a soothing voice! Lana’s voice is angelic and her music has a very vintage feel to it. She describes feelings in such interesting ways that I’ve never thought about.


She’s the perfect artist to play when you’re driving around on a rainy day or just having a relaxing, quiet evening at home. There’s something about her music that is so soothing to listen to; maybe it’s because of the soft melodies or the fact that her lyrics are so relatable. Many of her songs make me feel like she understands exactly how I feel and turned it into a song.

Lana Del Rey is a huge difference from the upbeat pop music I usually listen to, but she’s up there on the list of my all-time favorite artists. She’s truly a unique talent in a music world that’s so full of the same boring formula in a lot of songs you hear on the radio.

Lana Del Rey’s songs feel like poems with music because they are crafted so beautifully. She’s written songs about things like being in love and heart break, but she’s also written songs about her own crazy experiences in life.


We all go through some crazy experiences and Lana Del Rey’s music is there to tell you that there can be so much beauty among the chaos.   

Here are our picks of the 25 best Lana Del Rey quotes and heartbreaking song lyrics that are totally relatable to you and your life.


1. When you can’t stop thinking about that one guy.

“And there’s no remedy for memory. Your face is like a melody, it won’t leave my head.” — Dark Paradise 


2. When you get lost in his eyes.

“Baby, heaven is in your eyes.” — National Anthem 


3. When you’re into a bad boy.

‘You’re no good for me, but baby

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25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Get Over Him — For Good

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It’s time to move on.

“Breakups are easy!” — said no one, ever.

Break ups are tough.Telling someone you don’t want to be with them anymore sucks and it’s heartbreaking to hear someone say those words to you.

In the moment, it feels like you’ll never recover from such heartbreak. I’m here to tell you that you absolutely will! Everyone heals from a broken heart at their own pace.

No matter how long it takes to move on, just know that this experience has only made you stronger. The pain, although it is gut-wrenching now, will pass.


You’ve learned many lessons and, believe it or not, you’ve also made some great memories. You might eventually look back and even be grateful for the relationship à la Ariana Grande. Feel free to blast Thank U Next as many times as you need!

It’s important to take your time mourning the loss of the relationship, bu it’s important to pick yourself back up afterward. Chin up, buttercup, because today is your fresh start!

You now know what you want and don’t want in a partner, thanks to your ex. You’ve gotten rid of someone who isn’t a right fit for you and it’s time to move on in the search for your soul mate.

These 25 quotes will help you through your breakup by reminding you this isn’t the end. It’s only the beginning and your true love is out there just waiting for you!


1. When you miss who he used to be.

“I don’t miss him. I just miss who I thought he was.” — Unknown


2. Saying goodbye is never easy.

“We started with a simple hello, but ended with a complicated goodbye.” — Unknown 


3. Appreciate the time you spent together.

“You know you really love someone when you can’t hate them for breaking your heart.” — Unknown


4. Don’t let a breakup break you.

“She’s been through hell and came out, an angel. You didn’t break her, darling. You don’t own that kind of power.” — Unknown


5. Know your worth.

“He’s going to be sorry he lost you, so stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain and remember what an incredible woman you are.” — Unknown 


6. It’s OK to grieve the loss of a relationship.

“One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, my dear, is to grieve the loss of

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The Breakup Cafe

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Year 1999, when there were no breakups, only heart breaks.

It was 2:30 AM and Arjun kept checking his phone. He was sitting on a chair with his legs propped on the table. The table was neatly arranged with a few books from his college days and a notepad that he always kept with him to write stories and poetry. He was swinging a pen in hand impatiently. He kept thinking about the time it started and how surreal it felt then. He remembered when they went for a drive and it started raining and how they sang their favorite song together but now things had changed.

He said to himself, “She does not deserve me anymore. It’s over.” Suddenly the phone beeped, and Arjun pounced at it.

The message read, “Alright! Let’s meet for one last time at 10AM.” The meeting point was their regular coffee joint where they first went 2 years back and ever since they went there almost every day.

Arjun was working in an IT company, but he always wanted to be a writer.

On the other hand, Nishka had her priorities sorted. She wanted to start her own Playschool and was accumulating funds while working at her current job.

Arjun thought to himself, “So she seems to have made her mind this time”. He was not sure if Nishka had sent that message or someone else. They had many fights in the last two years for all the reasons a couple could fight. Every time a fight happened, Nishka would make things right. Arjun would later realize that he could have controlled his anger and may be not overreact every time.

“If she does not care anymore its better we breakup tomorrow; I need a closure” Arjun said out aloud as if trying to tell the same to Nishka. He went to sleep thinking Nishka must have slept so why should he lose his sleep over her. He could not sleep the whole night though.

So, the sun rose, Arjun was feeling sleepy but managed to get ready and started to drive from his house to the cafe. He kept on murmuring something as if revising the things he would say to her.

Arjun parked his car outside the cafe and went inside, trying to make the facial expression that would be appropriate for the situation, but he was unsuccessful.

He went straight …

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Dil ka dard original shayari made by aacky | Latest hindi Shayari

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Dil ka dard original shayari made by aacky | Latest hindi Shayari video

dil ka dard dikana ni cahate, kisi ko kuch batana ni cahate,
dil me jo aag jal rahi hai, use bi bujana ni cahate,
smma ki sama ronak rahe, usko bi to mitana ni cahate,
bus jalte rahe unhi unki yaad me, jinhe hum bulana bi ni cahate,
jal jal ke katam ho jaaye caahe, par usko ruswa karna bi nahi cahate,
bus dard ko awaj bana ke, sab tak bus pahucaana cahate…………..

(from bottom of my heart)…..

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mere ko gam tha, to kya tere ko bi gam tha,
agar tha bi to kya mera gam tere gam se kam tha,
tha dono ko gam, na kisi ko jayada na kisi ko kam tha,
iska kya pata kisko kya gam tha par tha jo bhi wo dono ko kam tha,
jo bi gam tha usko sunke ankho ka hona tay nam tha,
mere ko gam tha, to kya tere ko bi gam the
mera gam kya tere gam se kam tha, mere ko gam tha, mere ko gam tha…..

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Jab apne hi karne lage dohke,
Fir kya karu roke,
Usse bi to kuch ni hoga,
Fir kya karu roke,
Fir bhi milenge dokhe,
Jab apne hi karne lage dokhe,
Fir kya karu roke……..
Fir kya karu roke…….
Fir kya karu roke.

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shayarisms4lovers June18 41 - 20 Breakup Quotes To Remind You That Everything Happens For A Reason

20 Breakup Quotes To Remind You That Everything Happens For A Reason

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It’s time to find the good in goodbye.

Breakups are hard, but they’re pretty much unavoidable in your life and many of them happen for reason.

And although you understand the reason things didn’t work out was that the relationship wasn’t necessarily made to last, there’s a part of you that needs to heal after the breakup, anyway.

Your relationship could have been a friendship that developed into something more. You knew the two of you were just having fun for the time being.

You were just kind of hanging out, not really going on dates or being seen in public together. It still hurts when your friends with benefits wants to end the benefits side of your relationship.


Because let’s be honest, you started feeling something for that friend. It was impossible to be THAT physical together for SO long without getting caught up with feelings.

Now you’re heartbroken and a firm believer that friends with benefits doesn’t work. But where do you go from here? What else can you learn from the ending of this chapter in your life?

Breakups hurt even more when they come out of nowhere and involve a person you thought you were going to marry.

And you’ve been together with them for so long that you’re just not sure how to do the whole single thing. You’re pretty sure your world is over, there is no moving on from this.

But there is something beyond this breakup. There are new cities to explore, new people to meet, new experiences to have and of personal growth to go through.

We’re not saying that you’re going to bounce back from this heartbreak tomorrow. We’re not saying you’re going bounce back from it a week from now.


It will take some time to get over your heartbreak, but we are saying that you will bounce back sooner than you probably think. Everything happens for a reason and this break-up is no exception to that.

So to keep you positive, here are 20 quotes that remind you that everything happens for a reason you went through this breakup and the positive outcome is on it’s way to you.


“Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” —​ Marilyn Monroe


“I learned a lot about falling in love when I fell out of love. I learned a lot about being a friend when I was …

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Yeh Mat Sochna – Daasu Breakup Attitude Status

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Breakup Attitude Status in Hindi

ये मत सोचना..😎
की तू छोड़ देगी तो👉👸 टूट जाऊँगा मै..💔😔
कमीना हूँ..😂 तुझसे भी अच्छी😒 पटाउँगा मै..😎

Ye Mat SochnAa..😎
Ki Tu Chhod Degi To👉👸 Toot JaaunGa Mai..💔😔
KaMinaa Hun..😂 Tujhse Bhi Acchi😒 Pataaunga Mai…😎…

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20 Quotes That Remind You Why You Should Never Take Back A Cheater

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Trust is earned.

There’s nothing worse than the feeling you get when you find out you’ve been cheated on. It’s gut-wrenching, blood-boiling AWFUL. There’s nothing that compares to that betrayal.

The texts you find, the necklace in the backseat of his car, the pictures on his phone. It’s rage and fear and sadness all at the same time.

Yet… we are somehow tempted to take them back anyway. It’s that smile, the way they say they’re sorry (and seem like they actually mean it), that makes you WANT to forgive them and pretend like it never happened.

You WISH it were that easy, my friend. You wish things could go back to the way they were BEFORE they were cheating. But they can’t.

If your partner even has an IDEA that they want to cheat, they’re already halfway out the door. It’s the harsh truth that someone needs to share with you. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

You’ll always be taken back to the moment when they told you, or that feeling you get when you picture them with someone else.


It sucks. It feels awful, and you don’t deserve to have to go through that once, let alone again if you take them back.

Even if they SWEAR they’ll never cheat, will you trust them? Will you believe them when they say they’re out with friends, or will you always wonder?

Is it really worth it? I know where you’re at, the in-between where you COULD take them back, apologies and all. It’s so tempting. But you can’t. Because deep down you know it would never be the same.

You’ll always be glancing at their phone or checking their location, and they’ll always be trying to hide what they’re doing from you.

You don’t want to stay, you’re angry and you don’t want your emotions getting in the way. You just want to walk out of their lives entirely and feel confident and happy about it.

It’s not easy, walking away, but you’ve GOT this. Take the baby step of reminding yourself daily that you deserve better.


You’ll be lonely and feel desperate, but you can power through. You will find that being alone is so much better than being with someone who makes you feel miserable and unwanted.

It takes some empowering moments to really show you how happy you can be without them, and you’ll never …

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20 Heartbreaking Quotes To Help You Heal After Breaking Up With Your Soulmate

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Don’t look back, you’re not going there.

Sometimes heartbreak hits you in the face when you least expect it. It can feel like everything is going perfectly fine in your relationship, and then next thing you know, you’re crying on the floor with a bucket of ice cream wondering what you’re supposed to do next. Step one: pick yourself up off the floor.

He is NOT the person you are supposed to spend your life loving if you’re left alone crying on the floor. The worst part is, he may not even be that bad of a person. Maybe he just doesn’t love you like he used to. And somehow, you still want him back. You think that there will never be ANYONE who will love you the way he did. But I’ve got some news for you…

There is someone out there who will love you TEN times the amount that they did. Moving on is the first step to getting over someone you thought was the one. You can’t find love again if the only thing you’re doing is checking Instagram every 3 hours to see if he posted.

Go out with your friends. Buy a new cute outfit. Get INSPIRED. So much GOOD can come out of a breakup, it just doesn’t feel like it yet. When two people are meant to be together, things will work out, you will work hard, and there won’t be ANY doubts.

In your heart, you knew there was something that wasn’t going to work, and maybe you thought he’d never leave. BUT, this is your chance. Now is the time to find out who YOU are, what YOU want, and who YOU want.


Don’t settle for anything. Find that perfect person. Be picky! Don’t waste your time getting your heart broken by people who only know how to love the surface level things about you. You need someone who sees all the deepest parts of you and loves you for that.

It won’t be easy to get there, but I promise, you will. It takes a lot of time, and maybe it’ll come when you least expect it, but you NEED to move on.

That guy who broke your heart when you thought he was the one? Yeah, forget about him. You can keep the good memories and the lessons learned and then MOVE ON. It’s what’s best for everyone, …

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