50 Quotes That Profoundly Describe How Much Breakups Suck

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These quotes just get it.

Breaking up with someone you love is never easy.

Letting go of the one you love — especially after weeks, months or even years of accumulating treasured memories — can feel like tearing yourself in two.

But the positive side of breakups is that learning how to move on also gives you an opportunity to learn about yourself.

Taking a hiatus from love affords us the chance to get reacquainted with ourselves and helps us come to realize that we are not alone out there in our heartbreak.

People have suffered from broken hearts since pretty much the beginning of time.

And whether you’re ready to move on or still feeling a little raw from your emotions, reading and sharing inspirational — even if a tiny bit sad — quotes about love and loss can help you feel less alone as you heal.

To get you started, here are our picks for the 20 best inspiring quotes about breaking up, moving on and learning to love all over again.

1. “You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them … but still move on without them.” — Mandy Hale

2. “Someday it’s gonna make sense.”

3. “Starting today, I need to forget what’s gone. Appreciate what still remains and look forward to what’s coming next.”

4. “It just hurts. A lot …”

5. “Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser.”

6. “I need to let go of this false hope that you will change your mind and come back to me.”

7. “Dear heart, This is what happens when you try to make decisions on your own. Sincerely, Brain.”

8. “Take a step back today, look at all those beautiful things you have.”

9. “It’s going to be OK.”

10. “The course of true love did never run smooth.” — William Shakespeare, “A Midsummer Night’s Dream”

11. “Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable.” — The Wizard of Oz

12. “Ever has it been that loves knows not its own death until the hour of separation.”  — Khalil Gibran
13. “Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.” — Mark Twain

14. “The hottest love has the coldest end.” — Socrates
15. “The heart was made to be broken.” — Oscar Wilde
16. “Failed relationships can be described as …

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21 Love Quotes You Need In Your Life If You’re Trying To Move On From A Breakup

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When you’re nursing a heartbreak, you need the right words to let go.

As a love and relationship coach, I’ve read and taken to heart many love quotes about letting go and moving on after a breakup.

I’ve written countless articles about getting over a breakup and how to get over someone you love. I counsel women every day and support them through this tumultuous time of heartbreak in their lives.

I truly believe that sharing in the experience of others with a broken heart is one of the best ways for us to let go, move on, and heal.

Every day thousands of people like you have their hearts broken. And, every day, broken hearts are healed and life goes on. Hearing the words of others, and listening to their stories, can help you let go of love and move forward in life after a heartbreaking breakup.

Sometimes, looking through love and relationship quotes can make us feel worse after a breakup. However, finding a few breakup quotes about moving on can help heal the pain.

With that, here are 21 love quotes about moving on and letting go when you have a broken heart.

1. Love takes effort

“Every time I think about you, I have to remind myself that if you wanted to talk to me, you would.”— Anonymous

2. You have to do it for yourself

“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” — Deborah Reber

3. They shape who you are

“Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.” — Steve Maraboli

4. You will feel lighter

“Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down.” —​ Roy T. Bennett

5. You are worth so much more

“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake and help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.” — Mandy Hale

6. You are not a prisoner of the past

“Today expect something good to happen to you no matter what occurred yesterday. Realize the past no longer holds you captive. It can only continue to hurt you if you hold on to it. Let …

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20 Best Taylor Swift Quotes & Song Lyrics About Heartbreak — Because She Gets It

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If anyone understands heartache, it’s T-Swift.

Taylor Swift knows from experience that heartbreak sucks. She’s been through a handful of break ups and they’ve taught her many lessons.

​No matter how many times it happens, heartbreak never gets easier to deal with. It can feel like you’re the shell of the fun-loving, lively person you once were and leave you feeling like you’ll never be yourself again. You’ll think of the happy moments you shared, but the breakup will play on repeat in your head. You’ll cry, and while some might stuff their face with ice cream, others can’t even think about food after a breakup.


You might feel like this feeling will last forever, but know that the pain is temporary. Your broken heart will heal with time.

It can take a while to finally get over someone. Moving on is a slow process, but it is doable. Instead of thinking negatively, distract yourself with other thoughts. It’s so important to focus on self-love after a heartbreak. A broken heart can’t break YOU, remember that.  

We live and we learn from each relationship we enter, but some lessons are harder to learn than others. Eventually, when the heartbreak fades, you’ll come out stronger than you’ve ever been. In the meantime, cry, grieve, lean on friends and do everything you need to do to feel better. It’s good to let it out before you let it go.

I know how you’re feeling, because I’m dealing with a broken heart as well, but we’ll ge through this together. And if Taylor Swift can get through a heartbreak and move on, so can we!


Here are 20 Taylor Swift quotes about heartbreak and break ups to remind you things will get better. That’s a promise.


1. When he calls you after the breakup.

“You called me up again just to break me like a promise.” — All Too Well 

2. When there are so many things you wish you could say to him.

“Long, handwritten note deep in your pocket. Words, how little they mean when you’re a little too late. I stood right by the tracks, your face in a locket. Good , hopeful they’ll be and long they will wait.” — Sad Beautiful Tragic 

3. When you can feel that the love has died.

“The drought was the very worst when the flowers that we’d grown together died of thirst.”

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23 Healing Quotes To Help Your Broken Heart Move On

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Heal your heartbreak.

There is absolutely nothing worse than letting go of love when your heart is breaking. Nothing.

That’s why there are countless articles written every day by experts who offer you tips on on how to get over someone you love or heal your broken heart after a devastating breakup.

They offer all kinds of great advice about how to move on, jump back into dating, and find true love … but sometimes what you really need isn’t advice exactly, but words of wisdom and inspirational, uplifting quotes from others who’ve been there and can relate to how you are feeling in this moment of deep, deep pain.

I know because I counsel women in this position every day, supporting them through those tumultuous time when they’re learning how to get over a guy and deal with the lingering after-effects of their breakups and divorces.

So instead of writing yet another article with on the subject, I decided to share some of the wisest words I’ve heard or read that have brought many women I know the most comfort.

Learning from the experiences of others who have been through a heartbreak like yours is one of the best ways to heal your own intense emotional wounds.

“When you are standing in a forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place. But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place, and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope.”

So, without further ado, here are the 23 most inspirational and uplifting quotes to help you heal your broken heart and move on.

1. You never forget your broken heart.

“How can you forget the day your heart is broken? The funny thing about a broken heart is that it’s not fatal. Though you wish in vain that it were, life continues on and you have no choice but to continue on with it. You take the hand that fate has dealt you and you press forward because there is nothing else that can be done.” — Tracy Winegar

2. Each heartbreak opens a new door.

“Every time your heart is broken, a doorway cracks open to a world full of new beginnings, new opportunities.” —Patti Roberts

3. Don’t waste time.

“When it comes to love and loss, acceptance is never easy. We …

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25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Get Over Him — For Good

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It’s time to move on.

“Breakups are easy!” — said no one, ever.

Break ups are tough.Telling someone you don’t want to be with them anymore sucks and it’s heartbreaking to hear someone say those words to you.

In the moment, it feels like you’ll never recover from such heartbreak. I’m here to tell you that you absolutely will! Everyone heals from a broken heart at their own pace.

No matter how long it takes to move on, just know that this experience has only made you stronger. The pain, although it is gut-wrenching now, will pass.


You’ve learned many lessons and, believe it or not, you’ve also made some great memories. You might eventually look back and even be grateful for the relationship à la Ariana Grande. Feel free to blast Thank U Next as many times as you need!

It’s important to take your time mourning the loss of the relationship, bu it’s important to pick yourself back up afterward. Chin up, buttercup, because today is your fresh start!

You now know what you want and don’t want in a partner, thanks to your ex. You’ve gotten rid of someone who isn’t a right fit for you and it’s time to move on in the search for your soul mate.

These 25 quotes will help you through your breakup by reminding you this isn’t the end. It’s only the beginning and your true love is out there just waiting for you!


1. When you miss who he used to be.

“I don’t miss him. I just miss who I thought he was.” — Unknown


2. Saying goodbye is never easy.

“We started with a simple hello, but ended with a complicated goodbye.” — Unknown 


3. Appreciate the time you spent together.

“You know you really love someone when you can’t hate them for breaking your heart.” — Unknown


4. Don’t let a breakup break you.

“She’s been through hell and came out, an angel. You didn’t break her, darling. You don’t own that kind of power.” — Unknown


5. Know your worth.

“He’s going to be sorry he lost you, so stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain and remember what an incredible woman you are.” — Unknown 


6. It’s OK to grieve the loss of a relationship.

“One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, my dear, is to grieve the loss of

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25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Move On From The Past

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What’s really holding you back?

Letting go of the past is probably one of the hardest things to do. You might feel like it is easy, especially if the past brings up a lot of bad memories, but what about all of those times when you had to let go of someone or something important to you? Those times were hard to forget or leave.

I’ve always hated when someone has told me to move on or let it go after a breakup.

I can shrug most things off, but there are sometimes when moving on from a situation or person is just NOT going to happen that easily. Take a bad break up; a bad break up with someone who you thought was going to be around forever.

If someone told you to move on and stop worrying about it, would you be so willing to do so? No, probably not. Or a really great job you had to give up because you had to take care of family or move away. It hurts to say, but those are situations where you may never get closure.


And it sucks, but at some point, you DO need to move on and stop worrying what has happened in the past because it only brings you more pain to keep these feelings of lost and regret around.

Okay, I know, I know, saying “move on” is so much easier said than done, but let’s think about ways to actually put this “moving on” into action. When I go through a bad break up, I like to move on by burning everything that reminds me of them. Just kidding.

But removing those things that keep you attached to the past does actually help. And if you’re not in the business of getting rid of things, cleaning is very cathartic.


Deep cleaning your house and your heart can do wonders, trust me. And if all else fails? Cry it out, baby. Sometimes, you just need to let it out until it doesn’t hurt anymore.

But even when it feels like you can’t move on – no matter what it is that’s keeping you from letting go of the past – just remember that you are strong enough to handle anything life can throw your way.

I know it sounds cheesy, and I know I’m not the best person to come to with advice, but …

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