25 Confident Quotes That Prove It's Actually Good To Be Selfish Sometimes

Don’t be afraid to put yourself first.

It’s okay to selfish sometimes.

Putting yourself first is key to living a fulfilled and happy life. There is nothing better than canceling all your nights plans, lighting a candle, pigging out, and watching romantic comedies all night long.

Putting yourself first gives you the confidence you need to succeed in life – telling yourself that you are worth more than what you see in the mirror is powerful. Telling yourself every day that you are kind, smart, beautiful, and talented will give you the confidence you need to say no to things and people that drain you, and yes to the opportunities that make your stronger.

The trait “selfish” always has a bad connotation surrounding it. But, you should allow yourself to be selfish when it comes to what you want and how you plan to get it. This doesn’t mean you …

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20 Confident Quotes About Loving Your Weird & Being Yourself, Unapologetically

It’s time to kick normal to the curb.

There’s one descriptor in life that I’m not a big fan of: when people use the word ‘normal.’ It’s not that I’m against it or something, I just think it’s a dumb word. While there are some things you could call normal, like breathing or eating (to a point), the fact is no one is normal.

What’s even the basis for ‘normal?’ Who decided that having x trait and y hobby made you the ideal model for what everyone else should be? And why should everybody be like that? I really think that the whole concept of being ‘normal’ is a bunch of garbage.

No one is normal. We’re all a little weird and we’re all a little off-kilter.

We’ve all got quirks about us and things we do that make people tilt their head at us. Maybe your favorite sandwich is …

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30 Inspirational Quotes About Confidence To Remind You That It's Always Better To Just Be Yourself

No one else is like you.

Everyone struggles with self-confidence and longs to find out who they really are but it’s not as easy as it sounds.

We have all experienced insecurities and questioned our worth from an early age. Supposedly, this kind of self-doubt ends after high school or college and you emerge a confident and unshakeable human being with no major flaws.

Not.

We face this kind of self-doubt in every stage of our lives. Finding out who you are isn’t easy in the first place, and being confident enough to just be authentically who you were meant to be at all times is almost impossible. We are constantly surrounded by the pressures of society and are left comparing ourselves to the people around us.


The simple fact of the matter is that being yourself is a lifelong struggle, although some phases of life may be harder than others. …

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19 Quotes About How To Deal With Judgmental People That Prove You Should Never Care About What Everyone Else Thinks

Society is so judgemental.

When I was younger, I was well known for being the quiet one in any given group. I preferred my books to the people around me, making more time to read than anything else. In fact, when I was in sixth grade, my English teacher at the time pulled me out of class to suggest I read a little less and told me my reading habits were the reason I didn’t have many friends. Ironic, right?

I’m one of those people who grew up quickly, maturing faster than my peers and blessed with the intelligence to back myself up. I was nerdy, with big plastic framed glasses. I dressed like a PTA mom at age 12 and loved musical theater more than anything. I was an easy, gawky target. 

If you were to flash forward a few years and drive about 2 hours north, you’d find me …

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25 Self-Worth Quotes To Look Back On Every Time You Start To Doubt Yourself

You ARE worthy.

When you look in the mirror, what do you see?

Do you see someone who is strong and can overcome every obstacle standing in their way? Someone who is beautiful inside and out? Someone who is powerful beyond measure? Or… do you see someone who is not worthy of love? Someone who is not capable of succeeding? Someone who is broken?

Your answer to these questions has a lot to do with your self-worth. Self-worth is defined as having confidence in one’s abilities. This can include your ability to accomplish your dreams or to overcome any challenge.

Even on your worst days you never stop believing that you are a winner.

You are comfortable with everything that makes you, you. In turn, you expect the people in your life to recognize your value. Your confidence forces them treat you like the Goddess you are. They know that …

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30 Boss Lady Quotes To Keep You Motivated (And A Little Sassy) So You Can Keep Your Eye On The Prize

A strong woman looks a challenge in the eye and gives it a wink. — Gina Carey

For the longest time I struggled with the concept of being a boss.  I mean, me? A boss? At first it sounded like an unreachable goal but I soon realized everyone should strive to be the best they can be.

I think a lot of it has to do with being a woman in a society that doesn’t necessarily always favor us. For example, a man and woman can be doing the same thing but a man is the boss and a woman is just bossy.

But it’s a new year, so why go back to the old you? It’s your time to shine! You are THE boss, never forget that.


Boss people have a sense of confidence and awareness about where they stand in this world. From my work life to my romantic life, …

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25 Cardi B Quotes & Lyrics That Remind Us That Confidence Is Beautiful

Strength is her middle name, OKURRRRRR?!

Back when Vine was still a thing (R.I.P.), you probably saw a little snap of a woman walking down a hallway letting us know that she can wear whatever she wants to cause “A h– never gets cold.” A few years later that woman is now a household name, and you can hear Cardi B’s songs on almost every radio station.

Cardi B was a stripper in New York and exploded to social media fame. Her lack of a filter became super popular and got her tons of followers on Instagram. Between making viral Vines and hilarious Insta posts, her fame was rising quickly.


In 2015 she earned herself a spot on the VH1 reality show Love and Hip Hop: New York. As a regular cast member, she was known for not only being hilarious but also having a no-nonsense attitude. Her laugh and voice became iconic and instantly recognizable.


In 2017 she signed her …

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