More Than Just ‘I Love You’: 6 Awe-Inspiring Definitions Of Love

So much sweeter than the dictionary version. My psychoanalyst friend says that love is a strategy to fill the existential void of our lives. My brother thinks that we’re attracted to people who we think will make good babies. I asked a professor “What is love?” and was told that love is really just sex. There are so many different ways to think about romantic loving and how we end up choosing whom to say “I love you” to, and the science is not clear-cut. Romantic love is a complex web of lust, desire, passion, yearning, intimacy, among other things. So, what is the definition of love? Below are the six ways we define love (and romance!) in the Western world: 1. Love is salvation. The ancient Greek philosopher Plato described love as merging. In Symposium, an ancient book about love, the character Aristophanes explains that people used to be round creatures with four arms, four legs and two faces. They attacked the gods and as punishment, Zeus cut them all in two. Since then, people have desired their other half and yearn to grow back into their original whole. This myth encouraged the idea of romantic loving as a […]

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21 Scary-Accurate Love Quotes That Define Love Perfectly

What is love? Love is a tricky thing. The word itself inspires so many different emotions, different memories, and different definitions for everyone. Have I ever been in love? I might have said it to one person, I might have said it to five — but how many times did I really mean it? I might have meant it all the times I’ve said it, but looking back, each ‘love’ felt different. Maybe you’ve never said the ‘L’ word. Does that mean you’ve never experienced it? How would you know? There are so many different questions. You can look towards rom coms or Nicholas Sparks books for examples of love, but in reality, they’re still all so different. No one can tell you that your definition of love is wrong, but no one can tell you it’s right either. There is no set number of times you have to be in love, and there is no limit to how many times you can experience it. But maybe there are some things you think are love that just aren’t. Maybe to an extent, sometimes we are way off with our own definition. Love is not always true love, and you may not always end […]

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