Single looks good on you.
In a society where a high value is placed on relationships, it can be hard to be single.
As a single person it can become easy to doubt your worth and feel like you aren’t good enough to be loved. This can cause you to feel scarily alone. After some time, you might begin to accept that maybe relationships just aren’t for you. You make peace with that up until February rolls around.
February is the month of Valentine’s Day, and while everyone gets excited to celebrate love and affection, you get sad. The day is a reminder that you still don’t have a lover.
When you start to feel like this, take a deep breath and then snap out of it. This is the critical moment in which you must decide if you are going to either feel sorry for yourself or if you are going to realize how bomb you are. Hopefully you’ll choose the latter option.
Being single is not for the weak. It is for the people who are strong and committed to bettering themselves. It is for people who realize their worth and who would therefore rather be alone than to settle for less than they deserve.
So look at the bright side of things and think about all the benefits that single life has to offer. You have complete and utter freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want. You get the opportunity to learn more about yourself, your likes, dislikes, strengths and weaknesses. You realize that your happiness is dependent upon no one, and you get the best sleep at night knowing this. Most importantly, you learn to love and approve of yourself.
In case you start to get the urge to feel bad about yourself or get the urge to jump into a relationship just for the sake of it, here are 25 quotes to remind you of how great being single can truly be and how strong and beautiful you have to be to thrive and survive during this time.
1. The wait might be long but it’ll be worth it.
“Stay single until someone actually compliments your life in a way that makes it better to not be single. If not, it’s not worth it.” — Unknown
2. You deserve nothing short of amazing.
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