shayarisms4lovers June18 255 - 25 Famous 90s Movie Quotes Every Single Girl Can Relate To

25 Famous 90s Movie Quotes Every Single Girl Can Relate To

Ah, the 90s. It was a simpler time when people didn’t have to worry about things like social media, cell phones and dating apps. Being a single woman these days is exciting, but it can be a struggle too. We are juggling things like careers, friends, dating and sex. Then, of course, there’s the pressure we get from society to fit a certain mold. With social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, women are under more scrutiny than ever before; As if we didn’t already have it hard enough. We are bombarded with reminders of what everyone is accomplishing and maybe we just aren’t there yet. For many of us, a good nostalgia trip watching some of our favorite films from back in the day can be the best medicine after a stressful week. These films taught us about love and life, and they helped shape us into the women we are today. They made us laugh and made us cry. There’s also a good chance they even gave us our first crush too. Yeah, looking at you, Jack Dawson. When we are feeling a bunch of emotions, whether good or bad, sometimes the best way of expressing ourselves can be through quotes. They can be quotes about love, […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 233 - 50 Sucks-To-Be-Single Quotes Anyone Who HATES Valentine's Day Can Relate To

50 Sucks-To-Be-Single Quotes Anyone Who HATES Valentine’s Day Can Relate To

Can we just skip February 14th all together?! Thanks. If you’re like me and you’re really, really single, you probably hate Valentine’s Day. I’ve never had a romantic Valentine’s Day in my life. Because of that, it’s always been a day I’ve tried to avoid like the plague. I used to love the cheesy holiday as a kid because as a child, Valentine’s Day was about love in general. It was a day to get candy from your classmates and cute little cards. My mom would come home with chocolate hearts for me and I’d help my dad pick out beautiful roses for my mom. As we get older, V Day just becomes about couples, leaving us single peope to fend for ourselves. It’s strictly a day to distinguish who is in a relationship and who is single. It’s the one day of the whole year that I wish I had someone. If you feel that way, just know you’re not alone. There are millions of single people that will share your exact feelings about Valentine’s Day. Petition to replace Valentine’s Day with a second Thanksgiving, anyone? The good news is that Valentine’s Day only lasts 24 hours and we’re about to get it over with! […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 61 - 20 Best Taylor Swift Quotes & Song Lyrics About Heartbreak — Because She Gets It

20 Best Taylor Swift Quotes & Song Lyrics About Heartbreak — Because She Gets It

If anyone understands heartache, it’s T-Swift. Taylor Swift knows from experience that heartbreak sucks. She’s been through a handful of break ups and they’ve taught her many lessons. ​No matter how many times it happens, heartbreak never gets easier to deal with. It can feel like you’re the shell of the fun-loving, lively person you once were and leave you feeling like you’ll never be yourself again. You’ll think of the happy moments you shared, but the breakup will play on repeat in your head. You’ll cry, and while some might stuff their face with ice cream, others can’t even think about food after a breakup. You might feel like this feeling will last forever, but know that the pain is temporary. Your broken heart will heal with time. It can take a while to finally get over someone. Moving on is a slow process, but it is doable. Instead of thinking negatively, distract yourself with other thoughts. It’s so important to focus on self-love after a heartbreak. A broken heart can’t break YOU, remember that.   We live and we learn from each relationship we enter, but some lessons are harder to learn than others. Eventually, when the heartbreak fades, you’ll come out stronger than you’ve […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 213 - 25 Feel-Good Quotes About Being Single To Keep You Happy (& Thriving!) Through Valentine's Day

25 Feel-Good Quotes About Being Single To Keep You Happy (& Thriving!) Through Valentine’s Day

Single looks good on you. In a society where a high value is placed on relationships, it can be hard to be single. As a single person it can become easy to doubt your worth and feel like you aren’t good enough to be loved. This can cause you to feel scarily alone. After some time, you might begin to accept that maybe relationships just aren’t for you. You make peace with that up until February rolls around. February is the month of Valentine’s Day, and while everyone gets excited to celebrate love and affection, you get sad. The day is a reminder that you still don’t have a lover. When you start to feel like this, take a deep breath and then snap out of it. This is the critical moment in which you must decide if you are going to either feel sorry for yourself or if you are going to realize how bomb you are. Hopefully you’ll choose the latter option. Being single is not for the weak. It is for the people who are strong and committed to bettering themselves. It is for people who realize their worth and who would therefore rather be alone than […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 199 - 27 Halsey Quotes & Song Lyrics That Empower Us To Embrace Our Imperfections

27 Halsey Quotes & Song Lyrics That Empower Us To Embrace Our Imperfections

Life isn’t perfect, and that’s something to be proud of. Recent hits like Closer, Bad at Love and Him and I have thrust singer-songwriter Halsey into the spotlight. Over the past few years, the 23-year-old who was diagnosed with bipolar disorder as a teenager, dropped out of community college, and was kicked out of her parents’ home at age 19 has become one of modern music’s most relatable artists. Time and time again, Halsey’s lyrics remind us that she’s human, just like the rest of us. By embracing the imperfections in herself, her love life, and humanity at large, Halsey empowers us to do the same while learning valuable lessons along the way. Take a peek at our collection of the best Halsey quotes and song lyrics that inspire you to love yourself, remind you that not all of us are naturals in love, and that life isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. 1. Our hearts can play tricks on us. “Sometimes the heart is deceiving.” — Halsey, The Feeling 2. We often blame ourselves for changes in our relationships. “She doesn’t let me have control anymore. I must’ve crossed a line, I must’ve lost my mind.” — Halsey, Strangers 3. Sometimes, our emotions […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 278 - 20 Ariana Grande Song Lyrics Anyone Who Has Ever Been In Love Can Relate To

20 Ariana Grande Song Lyrics Anyone Who Has Ever Been In Love Can Relate To

These lyrics will hit you right in the feels. Ariana Grande had a crazy year for love, to say the least. She fell in love with Pete Davidson and got engaged all in a short amount of time, her ex, Mac Miller, died, and she broke off her aforementioned engagement. Maybe you didn’t have something that extreme happen to you last year, but we can all agree that love can be messy. Love is full of happiness, excitement, pain and suffering all in one. The more you love someone, the more you feel and the more you can hurt. Falling in love is a lot like gambling. You’re putting your heart on the line knowing that this could either be the greatest experience of your life or it could end in a devastating heartbreak. Regardless of what happens, we know that love is worth it in the end.  As the saying goes, “It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” We learn so much from loving people and the lessons we take away from past relationships will only help you love someone even better in your future relationship. Overall, love is a relatable topic in general because we all feel […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 54 - 40 Words Of Encouragement To Help You Get Through Even The Toughest Days

40 Words Of Encouragement To Help You Get Through Even The Toughest Days

You can do this. At one point or another in life, everyone reaches a point where everything becomes a little too much and it seems impossible to go on. You become lost in the haze of bad days and sleepless nights. You struggle to remember who you were before the event that changed you for the worse and even after the dust settles, you don’t know if you’ll ever be as happy as you were before it happened. With each bad thing that life throws at you, you think to yourself “at least this is as bad as it’s ever going to get.” But flash forward a few days, weeks, months, or years and life throws you an even bigger curveball. While you may feel the urge to punch a wall or scream into the void, you have no choice but to make it through. It’s unfair and the world is a cruel place but there’s comfort in the fact that you’re not alone. It’s a part of life and we must learn to overcome the struggles we face over the years. Everyone has their specialties when comforting friends. Some are listeners; they can empathize and react in a way that shows they care. Others are talkers; they can say […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 233 - 25 Lana Del Rey Quotes & Song Lyrics Everyone Who's Ever Had Their Heart Broken Can Relate To

25 Lana Del Rey Quotes & Song Lyrics Everyone Who’s Ever Had Their Heart Broken Can Relate To

She understands heartbreak. Lana Del Rey has an old soul and powerful lyric-writing skills. She’s a lot more mainstream these days, but I would still consider her as a type of alternative music. Lana is known for her somber songs with deep lyrics guaranteed to make anyone feel something. She’s so skilled at turning her hurricane of thoughts, whether happy or dark, into beautiful works of musical art. I’ve been a huge Lana Del Rey fan since 2013 and when I first discovered her, I couldn’t believe that one person could have such a soothing voice! Lana’s voice is angelic and her music has a very vintage feel to it. She describes feelings in such interesting ways that I’ve never thought about. She’s the perfect artist to play when you’re driving around on a rainy day or just having a relaxing, quiet evening at home. There’s something about her music that is so soothing to listen to; maybe it’s because of the soft melodies or the fact that her lyrics are so relatable. Many of her songs make me feel like she understands exactly how I feel and turned it into a song. Lana Del Rey is a huge difference from the upbeat pop […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 238 - 25 Life Quotes To Help You Cope & Heal When Someone Passes Away Unexpectedly

25 Life Quotes To Help You Cope & Heal When Someone Passes Away Unexpectedly

Life can throw some mean curveballs. While we come to understand from an early age that death is just a part of life, it doesn’t make losing a loved one any less painful. Death is hard. It is even harder when it comes unexpectedly. When we receive the news, we pray that it is just a bad dream we can wake up from. There are often no words to describe the amount of pain we’re in, and there are not enough hugs in the world to comfort us. It is normal during this time for people to wish for just one more moment with their loved one. One more moment to tell them how much they love and appreciate them before they are gone. But we must come to accept that this is not possible. We must instead focus on the bright side of things. We must stop and think about how much we gained just by knowing and having loved that person. It is too easy to let this pain consume us and stop us from moving forward and focusing on our future. We cannot spend time focusing on the things we can’t control. We cannot control death. All […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 74 - 23 Healing Quotes To Help Your Broken Heart Move On

23 Healing Quotes To Help Your Broken Heart Move On

Heal your heartbreak. There is absolutely nothing worse than letting go of love when your heart is breaking. Nothing. That’s why there are countless articles written every day by experts who offer you tips on on how to get over someone you love or heal your broken heart after a devastating breakup. They offer all kinds of great advice about how to move on, jump back into dating, and find true love … but sometimes what you really need isn’t advice exactly, but words of wisdom and inspirational, uplifting quotes from others who’ve been there and can relate to how you are feeling in this moment of deep, deep pain. I know because I counsel women in this position every day, supporting them through those tumultuous time when they’re learning how to get over a guy and deal with the lingering after-effects of their breakups and divorces. So instead of writing yet another article with on the subject, I decided to share some of the wisest words I’ve heard or read that have brought many women I know the most comfort. Learning from the experiences of others who have been through a heartbreak like yours is one of the best […]

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shayarisms4lovers mar18 149 - 25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Get Over Him — For Good

25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Get Over Him — For Good

It’s time to move on. “Breakups are easy!” — said no one, ever. Break ups are tough.Telling someone you don’t want to be with them anymore sucks and it’s heartbreaking to hear someone say those words to you. In the moment, it feels like you’ll never recover from such heartbreak. I’m here to tell you that you absolutely will! Everyone heals from a broken heart at their own pace. No matter how long it takes to move on, just know that this experience has only made you stronger. The pain, although it is gut-wrenching now, will pass. You’ve learned many lessons and, believe it or not, you’ve also made some great memories. You might eventually look back and even be grateful for the relationship à la Ariana Grande. Feel free to blast Thank U Next as many times as you need! It’s important to take your time mourning the loss of the relationship, bu it’s important to pick yourself back up afterward. Chin up, buttercup, because today is your fresh start! You now know what you want and don’t want in a partner, thanks to your ex. You’ve gotten rid of someone who isn’t a right fit for you and it’s time to move on in the search for your soul mate. These 25 quotes will […]

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shayarisms4lovers may18 57 - 25 Quotes That Capture What It Feels Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship

25 Quotes That Capture What It Feels Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship

A long distance relationship is not easy but it’s worth it. Long distance relationships aren’t for everybody. It takes a special type of person to endure all the loneliness and waiting around that happens in an LDR. I applaud those who choose to do long distance because it’s not an easy journey. It certainly tests your love and proves that if you can make it through the distance, you can make it through anything as a couple. I was in a long distance relationship and in the moment, it didn’t seem too bad. Once the relationship ended, I realized how much of a toll the distance took on our relationship. It sucks to think that if it weren’t for us living in two different states, we’d still be together. When we were with each other it felt incredible, but when we were apart, we were living our own separate lives and didn’t feel connected at all. It’s tough finding the balance between being apart and still making time to act like a couple, but some couple manage to do just that and come out on top. A long distance relationship is a roller coaster ride. It can leave you feeling lonely and emotionally distant from […]

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shayarisms4lovers may18 59 - 30 Honest Friendship Quotes Everyone Who's Fought With Their Best Friend Can Relate To

30 Honest Friendship Quotes Everyone Who’s Fought With Their Best Friend Can Relate To

Text your best friend one of these quotes and feel the love they give you back. Friends are important, but best friends are even more so. They are special to us and encouraging our BFF’s through positive and encouraging quotes is a great way to show them how much they mean to us. Friendships are important for social and mental health but best friends hold even more value in your life. Best friends are harder to come by, but when you do find one, they make such a meaningful impact on your life and you wonder how you ever lived without them. Most of the time best friends become family, which is one major way they differ from regular friends. Life throws curve-balls at you all the time, but a life without a best friend would make any inconvenience or struggle much harder. They support you no matter what and always look out for your health and safety. Likewise, you are always there for their health and well being too. Since best friends are so rare, most people have more regular friends than they do best friends. Sometimes people only have one best friend and to be honest, one is all you need. The more best friends […]

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shayarisms4lovers mar18 90 - 40 Quotes By Poet J. Iron Word That Remind You That You're Worthy Of Love

40 Quotes By Poet J. Iron Word That Remind You That You’re Worthy Of Love

I’m just going to come right out and say it: You are worth so much more than you’re willing to give yourself credit for I know, it’s hard to build yourself up and actually mean it. To stand in front of the mirror every morning and repeat a positive affirmations and a mantra of self-love, or to put yourself first even when everyone else around you is asking for help. It’s hard. But how come being nice to ourselves is so much harder than being mean? Why is it so much easier to list off all your weaknesses instead of appreciating your strengths? We often convince ourselves — or are told at a young age — that we’re only whole when someone loves us. But that someone many believe has to be another person — it can never be ourselves. We think we need our “other half” to be complete and happy in life because, somehow, this other person is supposed to save us. Having someone important in your life is, well, important, but that other person isn’t the only way to make you whole. You have to learn how to see strength and love within yourself before you can open your heart to others. You probably […]

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shayarisms4lovers June18 255 - 30 Uplifting Quotes To Comfort Someone Who Is Grieving

30 Uplifting Quotes To Comfort Someone Who Is Grieving

Some good words can go a long way. In light of what has happened throughout the past few years, our country has experienced plenty of grieving. There have been so many terror attacks, mass shootings, and random acts of violence throughout the entire world. Due to all of the terrible violence, many people are grieving the loss of a loved one or simply the seeming loss of humanity. Sometimes knowing what to say or do for a person who is grieving is very difficult and doesn’t come naturally to a lot of people. You may be worried about saying the wrong thing or saying something that doesn’t help. It can be hard to help someone who is grieving, even when you are grieving too. 1. Understanding the process. “It’s the process of grieving that’s important and necessary, not the understanding of it.” — Unknown 2. Remembering your loved one is in a happy place. “I made it home I just wanted to let you know that I made it home. Everything is so pretty here, so white, so fresh, so new. I wish that you could close your eyes so you could see it too. Please try not to be sad for me. Try […]

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