30 Quotes To Help You Deal When You’re At Your Wit’s End

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Breakups are never easy.

There are times in everyone’s life when life gets tough and brutal, and there’s a point where you are just over it. Your breaking point has been reached. There are steps you can take to make you feel better eventually. There are no quick fixes — feeling it out is the only way.

You need to accept that there’s no going back. No wishes for hope, no stressing about “what could have been” the reality is that it is over.

Deep down we all are like that child who cries to his mom because she got hurt playing on the swing, we all need to let out our emotions. Having times in your day where you can cry, punch a pillow, or just scream will do wonders to your attitude later on. When we don’t let out or emotions we bottle it in and eventually that will pop out no matter what. Whether it is you cutting someone off or you cursing off a loved one.

It’s important to not fall into a victim mentality. When you’re in pain you want the other person who did this to suffer. You want them to pay but that’s just not the reality, the only thing you can control is how you act about it.

Focus on where you are at right now, not where you were 20 days ago. Focusing on the past too much will lead you to now enjoying the present. If you’re out with your friends then enjoy a night with your friends, don’t focus on what happened a while back.

Forgiving the person who wronged you is the last step. It isn’t weakness but the path towards creating a better future for you.

Moving on is much easier said than done. It can take days, months — years even. It will ultimately happen though if you follow those steps, and in the meantime here is some of the best quotes for when you’re over it so you can let go of all of the frustration you must have right now.

1. There’s always a rainbow after the rain.

“When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.”Paulo Coelho

2. Make light out of darkness.

“Heartbroken? Channel your sorrow to become worthy of love. The world will be yours. “― Tapan Ghosh

3. Figure out who you are.

One of

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shayarisms4lovers June18 261 - 20 Healing Quotes For Heartbreak To Help You Get Over Your Crush When They Are Moving On Without You

20 Healing Quotes For Heartbreak To Help You Get Over Your Crush When They Are Moving On Without You

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The pain of seeing someone you love with someone else is awful, but survivable.

If you’ve ever had a crush, you know this feeling. That person you like is suddenly going out with someone else. You can’t believe it. After giving yourself all those pep talks in the mirror to ask them out, some guy/girl swoops in and steals your crush away. So now what?

Having your crush taken by someone else is a weird feeling. It’s like having the partial pain of a breakup without actually breaking up with someone.

You tell yourself that they’re the one for you as you find your gaze constantly drifting toward them, but at the same time you can’t seem to build up the courage to tell them your feelings. Then, when it’s all taken away, you feel devastated.

There are a few things you can do to get past this. One would be to find another crush (which is easier said than done). Another way would be to shoot your shot anyways and hope for the best (I wouldn’t recommend this). You could also try just going on a date to maybe at least get your mind off your previous love interest.

Regardless of which route you choose to take, it’s clear that it’s time to move on. Continuing to obsess over someone isn’t going to change anything except turn you into a stalker. Instead, try to figure out what your next best option is. Of course there are a few things you should do automatically, like, don’t suddenly be cold to the person you liked because that sends the wrong message. Just be yourself.

Now if none of those work for you, there’s always the words of wisdom of the ones who came before you (or just the people with more experience). Listen to the wise people who said these quotes about heartbreak, because they’re going to help you get over that crush.

Take a look at the healing quotes below that talk about the kind of courage it takes to move on from love so you can get your head back in the game and find someone even better.

1. Losing what you thought you loved can be beneficial.

“Sometimes we must undergo hardships, breakups, and narcissistic wounds, which shatter the flattering image that we had of ourselves, in order to discover two truths: that we are not who we

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shayarisms4lovers mar18 09 - 40 Powerful Quotes To Give You Strength When You Need It Most

40 Powerful Quotes To Give You Strength When You Need It Most

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These strength quotes will help you get through the day.

Life has a funny way of testing us. We are constantly presented with obstacles that we must somehow find the strength to overcome.

These obstacles can range from moving on from a bad relationship to getting through a financial drought, but whatever the challenge at hand might be, you have a choice to make. You can either give up before you start, quit half way through, or see it through to the end and the decision is not always an easy one.

We never really know how strong we are until we are faced with hardship. We learn to let go of our fears and take steps towards our future.

Sometimes those steps are harder than we could have ever imagined, but with time we learn that all we can do is take one step at a time.


We become better people as a result of our struggles. Our accomplishments are that much greater because we realize how much strength and dedication it took to achieve them.

But thinking positively about obstacles is not always our first instinct. During tough times it is all too easy to feel overwhelmed and like there is no way to come out on top. You can’t help but to wish that life could just be easy all the time, but where’s the fun in that?


You can do this.

When you start to feel stuck and think that you have no more fight left in you, that is when you must fight the hardest. You must not allow yourself to give in. You are strong enough to survive any and everything that life throws at you. If you at any point forget this, just remember the words of some very wise individuals.

Refer back to these quotes about strength as inspiration to keep on keeping on. It’ll be worth it in the end.


1. Sometimes really loving someone means letting them go.

“Moving on isn’t about not loving someone anymore and forgetting them. It’s about having the strength to say I still love you, but you’re not worth this pain.” — Ritu Ghatourey


2. Focus on what you can control.

“One of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of what you can’t change.” — Unknown


3. Choose yourself.

“Sometimes, caring for yourself means letting go and

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shayarisms4lovers mar18 38 - 25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Move On From The Past

25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Move On From The Past

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What’s really holding you back?

Letting go of the past is probably one of the hardest things to do. You might feel like it is easy, especially if the past brings up a lot of bad memories, but what about all of those times when you had to let go of someone or something important to you? Those times were hard to forget or leave.

I’ve always hated when someone has told me to move on or let it go after a breakup.

I can shrug most things off, but there are sometimes when moving on from a situation or person is just NOT going to happen that easily. Take a bad break up; a bad break up with someone who you thought was going to be around forever.

If someone told you to move on and stop worrying about it, would you be so willing to do so? No, probably not. Or a really great job you had to give up because you had to take care of family or move away. It hurts to say, but those are situations where you may never get closure.


And it sucks, but at some point, you DO need to move on and stop worrying what has happened in the past because it only brings you more pain to keep these feelings of lost and regret around.

Okay, I know, I know, saying “move on” is so much easier said than done, but let’s think about ways to actually put this “moving on” into action. When I go through a bad break up, I like to move on by burning everything that reminds me of them. Just kidding.

But removing those things that keep you attached to the past does actually help. And if you’re not in the business of getting rid of things, cleaning is very cathartic.


Deep cleaning your house and your heart can do wonders, trust me. And if all else fails? Cry it out, baby. Sometimes, you just need to let it out until it doesn’t hurt anymore.

But even when it feels like you can’t move on – no matter what it is that’s keeping you from letting go of the past – just remember that you are strong enough to handle anything life can throw your way.

I know it sounds cheesy, and I know I’m not the best person to come to with advice, but …

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