shayarisms4lovers June18 210 - 32 Strength Quotes About Starting Over When You're Ending A Relationship Or Following A New Life Path

32 Strength Quotes About Starting Over When You’re Ending A Relationship Or Following A New Life Path

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Change your name to Miss Movin’ On.

We are all guilty of staying around in something that was really meant to end. Maybe you spent a few months too many in a toxic romantic relationship. Or maybe you moved back home with your parents after college and just found yourself stuck there after a few years. Maybe you are at a dead end point in your career and need a fresh start. Maybe you are having a bad week.

Whatever the case is, learning how to acknowledge the past but move on into the future is one of the hardest tasks anyone can overcome. We are all creatures of habit in some respect. Wanting things to stay the same is a natural response to the fear that it brought up from the idea of things changing. We are here to remind you that change is a good thing!

Taking a leap of faith in a new place or finally calling it quits in your relationship can feel liberating at the moment. But once the adrenaline fades, we all need a little helping hand to keep us on the path to success. Once the clock strikes one in the morning and you are alone in your bed, you feel the weight of your decisions. Sure, you know it was in your best interests but having so much change around you can be incredibly jarring for anyone to take in.

Journaling is an incredibly useful tool. Writing out everything you are thinking and feeling can be your ticket to a clear head and a light heart. Remember that in transitional times, such as these, being honest with yourself and your needs should be at the forefront of your mind. Put yourself first after a time where others were putting you last.

So, when you find yourself deep in your feels about whatever has got you down and you need a friendly remind of the fierce boss that you are, turn to this list of strength quotes about starting over. In no time, you’ll be back on your A-game and ready to take this new chapter of your life by the horns.

1. Don’t be afraid to jump ship.

“Should you find yourself in a chronically leaking boat, energy devoted to changing vessels is likely to be more productive than energy devoted to patching leaks.” —Warren Buffett

2. Keep your eyes on the

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shayarisms4lovers June18 210 - 25 Heartfelt Quotes To Send To Someone When You're Ready To Forgive Them

25 Heartfelt Quotes To Send To Someone When You’re Ready To Forgive Them

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You’ve built the bridge and gotten over it. Time to let them know.

Our relationships with others are the most important connections to keep stable and healthy. Prolonged isolation is not good for anyone. A Harvard study has shown that mutually beneficial relationships between friends and family can extend your life and reduce stress-caused health problems.

However, having a perfect relationship with everyone we know or meet is not realistic. There are inevitably going to be tiffs here and there that leave things on the rocky side.

When someone wrongs you, the best thing to do is communicate your thoughts and feelings clearly and effectively. Tell the person, “This is what you did that upset me and this is why I think it was wrong.”

Opening the conversation early in the conflict allows for the most sincere emotions to be shared. Nipping these kinds of problems right in the bud is always a better alternative to holding a grudge.

But sometimes, the stars don’t allow for such graceful peacemaking.

Sometimes circumstance can get in the way of what is practical. In these cases, it can take quite some time to truly rebuild a broken relationship. According to Bustle, the best way to heal a hurt relationship is through a six-step process. First, you need to make sure you are ready to move on from the issue. This way, the fight can be put to rest and not resurface in the event that you become frustrated again.

Next, you’ll want to arrange a time and place to resolve in person. The digital world may seem like an easier way to say everything the way you want to. But nothing will fully be understood in its original intention unless you say it to their face. You have to decide how you want the resolution to go. If you want to talk it all out, it’s your responsibility. You can’t expect someone to read your mind.

On the flip side, if you decide that you want to move on from the relationship with no further connection, that is your right. There is no law that you have to stay connected to someone.

After clearly thinking about the fight, you should apologize, if necessary. But this should be done only, and they mean only if you truly mean it. Insincere apologies can bring on a mountain of later fights that dig deeper into the …

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50 Quotes That Profoundly Describe How Much Breakups Suck

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These quotes just get it.

Breaking up with someone you love is never easy.

Letting go of the one you love — especially after weeks, months or even years of accumulating treasured memories — can feel like tearing yourself in two.

But the positive side of breakups is that learning how to move on also gives you an opportunity to learn about yourself.

Taking a hiatus from love affords us the chance to get reacquainted with ourselves and helps us come to realize that we are not alone out there in our heartbreak.

People have suffered from broken hearts since pretty much the beginning of time.

And whether you’re ready to move on or still feeling a little raw from your emotions, reading and sharing inspirational — even if a tiny bit sad — quotes about love and loss can help you feel less alone as you heal.

To get you started, here are our picks for the 20 best inspiring quotes about breaking up, moving on and learning to love all over again.

1. “You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them … but still move on without them.” — Mandy Hale

2. “Someday it’s gonna make sense.”

3. “Starting today, I need to forget what’s gone. Appreciate what still remains and look forward to what’s coming next.”

4. “It just hurts. A lot …”

5. “Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser.”

6. “I need to let go of this false hope that you will change your mind and come back to me.”

7. “Dear heart, This is what happens when you try to make decisions on your own. Sincerely, Brain.”

8. “Take a step back today, look at all those beautiful things you have.”

9. “It’s going to be OK.”

10. “The course of true love did never run smooth.” — William Shakespeare, “A Midsummer Night’s Dream”

11. “Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable.” — The Wizard of Oz

12. “Ever has it been that loves knows not its own death until the hour of separation.”  — Khalil Gibran
13. “Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.” — Mark Twain

14. “The hottest love has the coldest end.” — Socrates
15. “The heart was made to be broken.” — Oscar Wilde
16. “Failed relationships can be described as …

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shayarisms4lovers June18 261 - 20 Healing Quotes For Heartbreak To Help You Get Over Your Crush When They Are Moving On Without You

20 Healing Quotes For Heartbreak To Help You Get Over Your Crush When They Are Moving On Without You

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The pain of seeing someone you love with someone else is awful, but survivable.

If you’ve ever had a crush, you know this feeling. That person you like is suddenly going out with someone else. You can’t believe it. After giving yourself all those pep talks in the mirror to ask them out, some guy/girl swoops in and steals your crush away. So now what?

Having your crush taken by someone else is a weird feeling. It’s like having the partial pain of a breakup without actually breaking up with someone.

You tell yourself that they’re the one for you as you find your gaze constantly drifting toward them, but at the same time you can’t seem to build up the courage to tell them your feelings. Then, when it’s all taken away, you feel devastated.

There are a few things you can do to get past this. One would be to find another crush (which is easier said than done). Another way would be to shoot your shot anyways and hope for the best (I wouldn’t recommend this). You could also try just going on a date to maybe at least get your mind off your previous love interest.

Regardless of which route you choose to take, it’s clear that it’s time to move on. Continuing to obsess over someone isn’t going to change anything except turn you into a stalker. Instead, try to figure out what your next best option is. Of course there are a few things you should do automatically, like, don’t suddenly be cold to the person you liked because that sends the wrong message. Just be yourself.

Now if none of those work for you, there’s always the words of wisdom of the ones who came before you (or just the people with more experience). Listen to the wise people who said these quotes about heartbreak, because they’re going to help you get over that crush.

Take a look at the healing quotes below that talk about the kind of courage it takes to move on from love so you can get your head back in the game and find someone even better.

1. Losing what you thought you loved can be beneficial.

“Sometimes we must undergo hardships, breakups, and narcissistic wounds, which shatter the flattering image that we had of ourselves, in order to discover two truths: that we are not who we

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shayarisms4lovers mar18 149 - 25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Get Over Him — For Good

25 Break Up Quotes To Help You Get Over Him — For Good

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It’s time to move on.

“Breakups are easy!” — said no one, ever.

Break ups are tough.Telling someone you don’t want to be with them anymore sucks and it’s heartbreaking to hear someone say those words to you.

In the moment, it feels like you’ll never recover from such heartbreak. I’m here to tell you that you absolutely will! Everyone heals from a broken heart at their own pace.

No matter how long it takes to move on, just know that this experience has only made you stronger. The pain, although it is gut-wrenching now, will pass.


You’ve learned many lessons and, believe it or not, you’ve also made some great memories. You might eventually look back and even be grateful for the relationship à la Ariana Grande. Feel free to blast Thank U Next as many times as you need!

It’s important to take your time mourning the loss of the relationship, bu it’s important to pick yourself back up afterward. Chin up, buttercup, because today is your fresh start!

You now know what you want and don’t want in a partner, thanks to your ex. You’ve gotten rid of someone who isn’t a right fit for you and it’s time to move on in the search for your soul mate.

These 25 quotes will help you through your breakup by reminding you this isn’t the end. It’s only the beginning and your true love is out there just waiting for you!


1. When you miss who he used to be.

“I don’t miss him. I just miss who I thought he was.” — Unknown


2. Saying goodbye is never easy.

“We started with a simple hello, but ended with a complicated goodbye.” — Unknown 


3. Appreciate the time you spent together.

“You know you really love someone when you can’t hate them for breaking your heart.” — Unknown


4. Don’t let a breakup break you.

“She’s been through hell and came out, an angel. You didn’t break her, darling. You don’t own that kind of power.” — Unknown


5. Know your worth.

“He’s going to be sorry he lost you, so stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain and remember what an incredible woman you are.” — Unknown 


6. It’s OK to grieve the loss of a relationship.

“One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, my dear, is to grieve the loss of

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shayarisms4lovers mar18 60 - 24 Breakup Quotes that Will Help you Heal Your Wounds Faster

24 Breakup Quotes that Will Help you Heal Your Wounds Faster

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While many of us have different opinions on how to get over a breakup, and we all experience heartbreak differently, one thing is for sure – breakups are never nice or easy.

Sometimes people leave us, sometimes we are the ones to leave. Either way, what we all need to focus on after a separation is moving on. But how do we do that, especially when the cut is fresh?

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Unfortunately, there is no recipe to do so. Each individual reacts and feels on different levels of intensity. What I can tell you is that family, friends and all those little things you love to do in your spare time can help you heal faster, so let them.

Know that it is perfectly normal to miss someone after a breakup and it’s okay to cry, scream and let it all out. The secret is to not make a habit out of it, and bring yourself even more misery. Make room for better things, because better things are yet to come. Don’t ever doubt that!

Here’s our selection of breakup quotes to help ease your pain and speed your healing process.breakup-quotes-to-help-heal

When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.

– Paulo Coelho

Heartbroken? Channel your sorrow to become worthy of love. The world will be yours. ― Tapan Ghosh

One of the best times for figuring out who you are and what you really want out of life? Right after a break-up.

― Mandy Hale

I can still love an ex as a person, regardless if the breakup was bad. I would never wish anything negative on them. It takes more energy to hate them than to wish them well.

— Ashley Greene

Patience is key for getting over a breakup. That and trailing off your interaction after the breakup.

— Drake

How do you know when it’s over? Maybe when you feel more in love with your memories than with the person standing in front of you.

— Gunnar Ardelius

I believe much of the pain of a breakup comes from having a life plan that you have fallen in love with. When it does not work out, you become angry that you now have to pursue a new life plan.

— Karen Salmansohn

I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that;

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shayarisms4lovers may18 41 - 20 Bittersweet Quotes For When You’re Leaving A Job You Love

20 Bittersweet Quotes For When You’re Leaving A Job You Love

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Thanks for the memories.

There’s this stereotype that everyone hates their job, no matter what it is. That they just can’t stand being there anymore and would quit in a heartbeat. Well, that’s not always the case.

There are people who love their job so much that they would rather not quit it for a new one, which makes leaving it even more difficult when a new employment opportunity comes that’s too hard to pass up.

Some people actually love their job for different reasons. Sometimes we love a job because we enjoy what we do. Other times we love our job because of the friendships we made along the way. Regardless, loving a job so much that you don’t want to leave it for a new one, isn’t as rare as it seems.


Sometimes, we reach a point where we need to move on from where we started. We feel like we’re at a standstill, and we crave some change and adventure.

That sense for a change could mean moving on to a different job for a new employment opportunity.

Getting up and leaving behind a place we loved and found comfort in hurts. We grew as a person as we worked, made memories, had laughs, and made friendships we vow to cherish forever.

Our coworkers became friends that helped keep us motivated and inspired, even on our bad days — and we can’t thank them enough for all the times they were there for us.


This is a scary concept; moving on and doing a brand new thing. We’re scared, yet so excited. But not only are we absolutely ecstatic, we’re also sad.

Our job was more like a hobby for us, rather than a chore. But we realized, we had overstayed our welcome — and it’s time for something new.

The unsettling mix of sadness and joy you’re feeling is normal. Leaving somewhere you grew to love for something new feels wrong, but just know that it’s for the best, and it’s what you have to do.

To battle your negative thoughts about leaving your old job for a new one, here are 20 bittersweet quotes to help you cope with leaving a job you came to love.


If you’re searching for the best quotes and memes to share with the people you love (or just want to feel inspired yourself) … look no further! From the

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20 Heartbreaking Quotes To Help You Heal After Breaking Up With Your Soulmate

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Don’t look back, you’re not going there.

Sometimes heartbreak hits you in the face when you least expect it. It can feel like everything is going perfectly fine in your relationship, and then next thing you know, you’re crying on the floor with a bucket of ice cream wondering what you’re supposed to do next. Step one: pick yourself up off the floor.

He is NOT the person you are supposed to spend your life loving if you’re left alone crying on the floor. The worst part is, he may not even be that bad of a person. Maybe he just doesn’t love you like he used to. And somehow, you still want him back. You think that there will never be ANYONE who will love you the way he did. But I’ve got some news for you…

There is someone out there who will love you TEN times the amount that they did. Moving on is the first step to getting over someone you thought was the one. You can’t find love again if the only thing you’re doing is checking Instagram every 3 hours to see if he posted.

Go out with your friends. Buy a new cute outfit. Get INSPIRED. So much GOOD can come out of a breakup, it just doesn’t feel like it yet. When two people are meant to be together, things will work out, you will work hard, and there won’t be ANY doubts.

In your heart, you knew there was something that wasn’t going to work, and maybe you thought he’d never leave. BUT, this is your chance. Now is the time to find out who YOU are, what YOU want, and who YOU want.


Don’t settle for anything. Find that perfect person. Be picky! Don’t waste your time getting your heart broken by people who only know how to love the surface level things about you. You need someone who sees all the deepest parts of you and loves you for that.

It won’t be easy to get there, but I promise, you will. It takes a lot of time, and maybe it’ll come when you least expect it, but you NEED to move on.

That guy who broke your heart when you thought he was the one? Yeah, forget about him. You can keep the good memories and the lessons learned and then MOVE ON. It’s what’s best for everyone, …

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