15 Heartbreaking Lana Del Rey Lyrics About The One Who Got Away

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Lana knows all about not being able to move on.

Everyone has that one person they just can’t seem to get over. Maybe you have accepted that you can’t have a relationship with this person, but the feelings are still there — or maybe you keep going back to them hoping things might improve.

There’s something about going through a continuous cycle of heartache with the same person and feeling unable to get over someone that just makes you feel so powerless and out of control.

It’s almost as if this person has you under their spell and there’s no way to break it.

Often times, the one who got away is not always the best to you, yet you choose to look past it because you are so blinded by love.

For me, I’ve given guys multiple chances because I felt so strongly about them and could see their potential, but there were so many character flaws that I waited for them to fix, only to find them incapable of doing so. Although it was hard, I had to do what was best for me and let these people go. You would think this would be easy to do, especially if they are heavily flawed, but it’s hard to let someone go who you still care about deeply.

If you are anything like me when it comes to heartbreak and lost love, you likely take every sad love song you hear and imagine that song as if it were written about your life. You find common ground between the protagonists in these songs and wonder how a songwriter can perfectly describe exactly how you are feeling, down to the smallest detail. For me, that songwriter is Lana Del Rey.

Known for her unique Hollywood sad-core style music, her ability to write song lyrics in a way that captures my exact feelings, when I am unable to fully articulate them myself, is exactly what I need when I’m feeling down. She’s able to put my feelings into a much more beautifully poetic piece than I ever could. Lana Del Rey’s music is especially perfect for me when I get upset over a guy and just want to drown in my sorrows or get hit in the feelings.

Although heartbreak sucks, there is some solace in knowing that you are not alone. If even Lana Del Rey has gone through things …

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30 Quotes To Help You Deal When You’re At Your Wit’s End

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Breakups are never easy.

There are times in everyone’s life when life gets tough and brutal, and there’s a point where you are just over it. Your breaking point has been reached. There are steps you can take to make you feel better eventually. There are no quick fixes — feeling it out is the only way.

You need to accept that there’s no going back. No wishes for hope, no stressing about “what could have been” the reality is that it is over.

Deep down we all are like that child who cries to his mom because she got hurt playing on the swing, we all need to let out our emotions. Having times in your day where you can cry, punch a pillow, or just scream will do wonders to your attitude later on. When we don’t let out or emotions we bottle it in and eventually that will pop out no matter what. Whether it is you cutting someone off or you cursing off a loved one.

It’s important to not fall into a victim mentality. When you’re in pain you want the other person who did this to suffer. You want them to pay but that’s just not the reality, the only thing you can control is how you act about it.

Focus on where you are at right now, not where you were 20 days ago. Focusing on the past too much will lead you to now enjoying the present. If you’re out with your friends then enjoy a night with your friends, don’t focus on what happened a while back.

Forgiving the person who wronged you is the last step. It isn’t weakness but the path towards creating a better future for you.

Moving on is much easier said than done. It can take days, months — years even. It will ultimately happen though if you follow those steps, and in the meantime here is some of the best quotes for when you’re over it so you can let go of all of the frustration you must have right now.

1. There’s always a rainbow after the rain.

“When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.”Paulo Coelho

2. Make light out of darkness.

“Heartbroken? Channel your sorrow to become worthy of love. The world will be yours. “― Tapan Ghosh

3. Figure out who you are.

One of

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shayarisms4lovers June18 228 - 30 Best, Most Relatable Kourtney Kardashian Quotes About Love, Life, And Family Values

30 Best, Most Relatable Kourtney Kardashian Quotes About Love, Life, And Family Values

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As the eldest of the Kardashian siblings, it’s clear she’s the wisest.

We’ve been watching the Kardashian and Jenner family grow up for the last decade. Along with the laughs, tears, and shock, we’ve come to learn that these siblings can say some of the most blunt, insane, and down right most relatable things we’ve ever heard on television.

In particular, Kourtney Kardashian seems to have no filter when it comes to saying exactly how she feels. As most of us have these thoughts anyway (and keep them there), we’d like to applaud her for always speaking her truth.

Read on as we list 30 of the best Kourtney Kardashian quotes, and why the eldest sibling is our honorary spirit animal. 

1. When communication is a challenge

“I mean, we’re not talking, and normally we talk.”

2. And with a nice glass of wine in hand

“I feel fine. I just cry myself to sleep every night.”

3. When you overanalyze every detail

“It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.”

4. Being let in on all the deets

“I have my sources.”

5. No new friends

“That personality just doesn’t vibe with others.”

6. Creating awkward situations, like it’s a hobby

“Alright, I’m going to make urination sample.”

7. Sometimes it’s fun to third wheel 

“I just took it upon myself to tag along.”

8. Avoiding anything confrontational

“If someone’s, like, trying to get deep with me about something, I’m just like, no, no, no, no.”

9. Have you heard of texting?

“Your conversations are too long, bye.”

10. Trying to make excuses for your friend who’s just been ghosted

“She’s probably not answering because she stole the dog and she’s on the run.”

11. When your parents ask how your job is doing, who you’re dating, or if you’ve thought about settling down…

“My vibe right now is just living life.”

12. Being out of touch with technology

“We’re gonna Snapchat!”

13. When someone’s talking dish about your BFF

“She’s kinda like a ride or die kinda biotch.”

14. As your boss asks what you’re doing

“I’m not just sitting here dilly-dallying.”

15. When you haven’t had a carb since 2017

“I just lose weight.”

16. On a Friday

“I’m leaving at 4PM and I don’t care what anybody else says.”

17. When someone brings up politics

“Anyways…”

18. When you’re right, you’re right

“My way

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shayarisms4lovers June18 231 - 25 Quotes That Prove Being Single Is FUN & Should Be Celebrated — Not A Reason To Be Sad

25 Quotes That Prove Being Single Is FUN & Should Be Celebrated — Not A Reason To Be Sad

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25 quotes that show you why being single isn’t a bad thing.

The other day I was scrolling through facebook and looking at random blog posts and articles and I saw 3 or 4 articles in a row talking about being single and sad. They talked about how to reel in the perfect guy, how to cope with being single, how to make sure you make the right impression and how to give off signs that you’re open and available.

Part of me wondered why, all of a sudden, being single seen as such a negative thing?

Single life can sometimes be lonely, for obvious reasons. We are social creatures, and we love being cozy with someone we love, which can make it hard to be alone. It’s natural to crave that kind of closeness and intimacy that comes with romantic relationships.

But, honestly, single life can also be one of the best things to happen to you — especially if you’re leaving a toxic relationship or taking some time to find yourself.

Being single doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you or that you’ll never fall in love. It just means that you’re content on your own and able to take time for yourself.

Being single means you can eat half a gallon of ice cream without sharing, and you get to prioritize your own wants and needs without having to make compromises. What’s so bad about that? 

The truth is that I don’t want a man in my life if I don’t think he will genuinely make my life better by being a part of it. I would rather stay single and content with the life I’ve built for myself than deal with a relationship that doesn’t add to my life in a positive way.

There is something to be said for taking the time to just enjoy your life and be happy on your own.

I’ll be honest, I didn’t understand why people say that you have to love yourself before you love someone else for a long time. But, when you’re happy with who you are and the life you live, you have a much more solid base walking into a relationship when you’re ready. And the other thing is that just because there’s someone around that you COULD date, doesn’t mean you should.

Staying single isn’t a bad choice.

Being single isn’t a bad thing, …

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shayarisms4lovers June18 255 - 25 Famous 90s Movie Quotes Every Single Girl Can Relate To

25 Famous 90s Movie Quotes Every Single Girl Can Relate To

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Ah, the 90s. It was a simpler time when people didn’t have to worry about things like social media, cell phones and dating apps.

Being a single woman these days is exciting, but it can be a struggle too. We are juggling things like careers, friends, dating and sex. Then, of course, there’s the pressure we get from society to fit a certain mold.

With social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, women are under more scrutiny than ever before; As if we didn’t already have it hard enough.

We are bombarded with reminders of what everyone is accomplishing and maybe we just aren’t there yet.

For many of us, a good nostalgia trip watching some of our favorite films from back in the day can be the best medicine after a stressful week. These films taught us about love and life, and they helped shape us into the women we are today. They made us laugh and made us cry. There’s also a good chance they even gave us our first crush too.

Yeah, looking at you, Jack Dawson.

When we are feeling a bunch of emotions, whether good or bad, sometimes the best way of expressing ourselves can be through quotes. They can be quotes about love, friendship quotes, depression, frustration, or even funny quotes.

Films that defined our youth are extra special, because we feel like the screenwriters understood us. Not only are they saying what we want to express to the world, but they also take us back to a happier time.


For the single women out there, it’s easy to feel like the world just doesn’t get us. Maybe our parents are questioning our career choices, or that guy we slept with is probably, in fact, an idiot. Sometimes we could use a good reminder of how strong we are and that we are not alone.

So look to these nostalgic 90s movie quotes for the single woman for comfort, maybe some laughs, and a little reminder that you’re lovely just the way you are — whether or not you’re in a relationship.


1. The shortest romance can mean the most.

“All this nothing has meant more to me than so many somethings.” — You’ve Got Mail


2. We don’t always kiss and tell.

“A woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets.” — Titanic


3. Being an adult is never easy.

“I’m not

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shayarisms4lovers June18 233 - 50 Sucks-To-Be-Single Quotes Anyone Who HATES Valentine's Day Can Relate To

50 Sucks-To-Be-Single Quotes Anyone Who HATES Valentine’s Day Can Relate To

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Can we just skip February 14th all together?! Thanks.

If you’re like me and you’re really, really single, you probably hate Valentine’s Day. I’ve never had a romantic Valentine’s Day in my life. Because of that, it’s always been a day I’ve tried to avoid like the plague.

I used to love the cheesy holiday as a kid because as a child, Valentine’s Day was about love in general. It was a day to get candy from your classmates and cute little cards. My mom would come home with chocolate hearts for me and I’d help my dad pick out beautiful roses for my mom.

As we get older, V Day just becomes about couples, leaving us single peope to fend for ourselves. It’s strictly a day to distinguish who is in a relationship and who is single.

It’s the one day of the whole year that I wish I had someone. If you feel that way, just know you’re not alone.


There are millions of single people that will share your exact feelings about Valentine’s Day. Petition to replace Valentine’s Day with a second Thanksgiving, anyone?

The good news is that Valentine’s Day only lasts 24 hours and we’re about to get it over with!

This year, try to approach Valentine’s Day differently. Make it about love in genereal and use it as a time to show the people around you how much you love and care about them. The truth is, you don’t need a boyfriend or girlfriend to have love in your life. 


Try to be a little more positive about Feb. 14 when it roll around. It may not feel like it, but you won’t be single forever. One day that perfect person will come into your life and make all the Valentine’s Days you spent eating chocolate alone worth it.

If you’re still dreading Thursday, February 14, that’s OK. Here are 50 relatable quotes about being single on Valentine’s Day to get you through the Hallmark holiday!


1. When you already know you’re beautiful.

“I don’t need to be in a relationship so that I can be told how beautiful, pretty and sexy I am. I already know that.” — Unknown 

2. When you’re patiently waiting for the right one.

“Wait for the person who will do anything to be your everything.” — Unknown

3. When you don’t need a fancy dinner out.

“Roses are

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shayarisms4lovers June18 213 - 25 Feel-Good Quotes About Being Single To Keep You Happy (& Thriving!) Through Valentine's Day

25 Feel-Good Quotes About Being Single To Keep You Happy (& Thriving!) Through Valentine’s Day

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Single looks good on you.

In a society where a high value is placed on relationships, it can be hard to be single.

As a single person it can become easy to doubt your worth and feel like you aren’t good enough to be loved. This can cause you to feel scarily alone. After some time, you might begin to accept that maybe relationships just aren’t for you. You make peace with that up until February rolls around.

February is the month of Valentine’s Day, and while everyone gets excited to celebrate love and affection, you get sad. The day is a reminder that you still don’t have a lover.


When you start to feel like this, take a deep breath and then snap out of it. This is the critical moment in which you must decide if you are going to either feel sorry for yourself or if you are going to realize how bomb you are. Hopefully you’ll choose the latter option.


Being single is not for the weak. It is for the people who are strong and committed to bettering themselves. It is for people who realize their worth and who would therefore rather be alone than to settle for less than they deserve.

So look at the bright side of things and think about all the benefits that single life has to offer. You have complete and utter freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want. You get the opportunity to learn more about yourself, your likes, dislikes, strengths and weaknesses. You realize that your happiness is dependent upon no one, and you get the best sleep at night knowing this. Most importantly, you learn to love and approve of yourself.

In case you start to get the urge to feel bad about yourself or get the urge to jump into a relationship just for the sake of it, here are 25 quotes to remind you of how great being single can truly be and how strong and beautiful you have to be to thrive and survive during this time.


1. The wait might be long but it’ll be worth it.

“Stay single until someone actually compliments your life in a way that makes it better to not be single. If not, it’s not worth it.” — Unknown


2. You deserve nothing short of amazing.

“Yeah, I’m single, but you’re gonna have to be amazing

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23 Being Single Quotes To Help You Bounce Back After A Hard Break Up

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You don’t need anyone but you to make you happy.

We’ve all been there. By there, what I really mean is single. And, more than likely all of us have been single — again. It’s hard to know how to embrace the single life and all its benefits in the way we want to.

Maybe our last relationship was a few years ago and we’ve been single longer than we care to admit.

Or maybe we’re one of those people who is rarely single because we’ve been in a relationship for a long time, or find ourselves back in one before we can process the end of the old one.

It doesn’t matter how, when, or why we find ourselves single. The point is we are or have been in this situation.

And what’s more important about being single is not looking at it or treating it in a negative way.


You used to have someone around 24/7 who you could go to for anything and everything. Problems and jokes, good night and good morning texts… you became used to the ease and routine of this communication.

You also had a go-to person for all your activities. Needed to run some errands? He came along. Wanted to see that new movie? She was in the seat next to you handing over the popcorn.

You had a hand to hold, a shoulder to lean on, and a mouth to kiss, and now it’s gone. Your routine and comfort has been taken from you, and you’re not sure how to feel or react.

Do you even remember how to be single? Do you even know how to function?

It’s not impossible to be single once you’ve been in a relationship. It just takes some getting used to!

Here’s the thing, “single you” and “taken you” shouldn’t be too much different than each other. Besides the obvious of having a significant other, you are the same person you have always been.

You still have friends to see movies with and go to with problems. You still have your own two feet to stand on. You’re not broken. You just need to learn how to be single again.

This starts by focusing on the positives of being single rather than the negatives that for some reason accompany the word.

Sure, it will be hard to avoid the countless couples and mass PDA we come …

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