22 Tough-Love Quotes To Get You Through Nasty Friend Drama

No need for negativity in your life.

We’ve all had our fair share of drama. Maybe it was about a boy you liked or were dating, and things just were not going as planned. Or maybe you and your parents were just not seeing eye to eye about an issue. You’ve tried to take care of the drama yourself, but seem to have no luck doing so.

That’s what your friends are for! You know you can go to them to talk about anything and while you hope they’ll take your side, they’ll also tell you the truth. They’ll give you the advice you need to hear or tell you when you’re completely overreacting about a situation.

Maybe you don’t even want to think about your own drama or get advice, you just want to take your mind off of it. So, of course, you turn to your friends. There is no one better to keep you busy and keep you laughing.

They will help you with whatever you’re going through. 

But what about when it’s your friend who is creating the drama? Or when her life is just so drama filled that you don’t think you can take it anymore. You’ve gone to her for help but somehow end up being the one to give her advice… again.

Of course, you don’t mind being there for her like she’s been there for you. But lately, she hasn’t been there for you because her own life is just so dramatic that she believes it takes priority.

At that point, you may feel you need to find someone else to go to and separate yourselves for a while until you both figure your drama out.

Or worse, your friend is just completely creating drama among you and your other friends out of nothing. She goes after the same guy as you or another friend, or your ex, even though you told her that is not cool. You just don’t need this kind of girl drama in your life.

When you’re in a situation like this, it’s easy to see that you’re not happy and it’s not healthy. So what can you do? Use these quotes about being completely over dealing with all the friend drama to inspire you to action. Will you rise above, or will you cut it out of your life?

Keeping away from your friend’s drama is the ideal way to deal with the situation.

“Just because some people are fueled by drama doesn’t mean you have to attend their performance.”

And you definitely won’t be adding fuel to her fire.

“I refuse to entertain negativity. Life is too big and time is too short to get caught up in empty drama.”

If you can, you’re going to remove yourself completely from the situation.

Sometimes the easiest way to solve a problem is to stop participating in the problem.” Jonathan Mead

Honestly, you have other things to worry about and to tend to.

“My hobbies include having no time for bullshit.”

You’re just no longer interested.
You defnitely have the choice to confront her about it.

“I didn’t cause it. I can’t control it. I can’t cure it. But I won’t condone it.”

Friendships are equal give and take, and her drama is way too much give.

“I decided to put as much effort into contacting you as you do with me — that’s why we don’t talk anymore.”

“Breaking news: I don’t care.”

Friends are supposed to come to you with the good and the bad, not just the bad.

“The best way to deal with someone that only wants you when it’s convenient to them is to not deal with them at all.”

There is just so much drama that they have to be making some of it themselves.
And you’re supposed to have fun with friends, not be stressed and upset by them.

“The people in your life should be a source of reducing stress, not causing more of it.”

Focusing on yourself is just as important, and maybe even more, as any issues she is bringing to the table.

“If it costs you your peace it’s too expensive.”

It’s not worth your sanity and mental health.

“Never let the stupid drama stress you.”

If you need to cut this drama, and this friend, out of your life, then do it.

“Walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it. It’s your life. Do what makes you happy.”

From here on out this is your new motto.
And this is your new spirit animal.

“No drama llama.”

Just because they created a storm doesn’t mean you have to walk through it.

“Some people create their own storms, then get upset when it rains.”

Not everything is meant to be in your life, especially unnecessary drama.

“If you have to force it, leave it. Relationships. Friendships. Yoga poses. Perfect pony tails. Let that shit go.”

Maybe you’ll try to fix the situation, but know that not everything can be fixed.

“There is a difference between giving up and knowing when you have had enough.”

And maybe you’ll choose to take the high road.
It’s okay to separate yourself from them if that’s what is best for you.

“Sometimes you have to separate yourself from everyone and just focus on doing you.”

And remember this going forward.

“Surround yourself with girlfriends that push you to be and do better. No drama or mess.”

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