There are better things out there for you.
Breakups are hard. They are hard to accept and they are hard to move on from, especially if you were in love with this person.
When you are in love, you will feel like your heart is breaking or shattering into a million tiny pieces that you will never be able to move on from. Like there isn’t even enough glue in the world to put back together all the pieces. It’s hard, I know.
Even feel like you can’t even breathe or live without this person in your life, but you can.
You may even want to just lay in bed, not take a shower, and cry yourself out over a gallon of chocolate ice cream. But that’s OK to do at first if you need that. Everyone is different in how you cope with breakups. But don’t get stuck in that rut. You can move forward, don’t hold yourself responsible. Most likely, you are not the main reason.
When a breakup happens, it’s important to remind yourself that there are better things out there for you. You will find your happiness again and you will be happier with this new person.
Loneliness will only be your friend for a little while, to give yourself some time to emotionally heal from your heartbreak. It’s a good idea to not rebound fast after a breakup because you will be acting on your upset feelings and your need for love and attention, that you are not getting. But sometimes, it’s for the best to take some time for yourself and grow into who you are. Find out who you are post-relationship.
Remember, relationships come and go. You will find something better out there next time, so don’t feel like you have lost your one true love and not give yourself a chance at true happiness.
Here are some encouraging quotes to remind you that you are not alone and that you can get over this breakup stronger than you were before it.
1. Something better is out there for you.
“Something good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” —Marilyn Monroe
2. No one can decrease your value.
“Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.” —Unknown
3. You must pick up the pieces.
“You can break down a woman temporarily, but a real woman will always pick up the pieces, rebuild herself, and come back stronger than ever.” —Unknown
4. You must forgive, but you will never forget.
“What’s broken is broken — and I’d remember it as it was than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived.” —Margaret Mitchell
5. There is better love out there for you.
“Cheer up, sweet, beautiful girl. You are going to be in love again and it will be magnificent.” —Unknown
6. Sometimes you just have to let your relationship end.
“Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.” —Unknown
7. Remember the past for what it is.
“He’s going to be sorry he lost you, so stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain and remember what an incredible woman you are.” —Unknown
8. Healing does take time.
“The poison leaves bit by bit, not all at once. Be patient. You are healing.” —Yasmin Mogahed
9. Sometimes what you deserve isn’t what you have.
“Sometimes you have to walk away from what you want to find what you deserve.” —Unknown
10. You are better off starting over.
“You will not heal by going back to what broke you.” —Unknown
11. It’s not the end of the world.
“Your relationship ended. Not your life.” —Unknown
12. Your past has changed you already.
“Sometimes we would like to change our past, but we need to realize that the past has already changed us.” —Unknown
13. Love is never practical.
“Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable.” —Wizard of Oz
14. You will learn to love again.
“It takes a strong heart to love. And it takes a truly strong heart to love again after being hurt.” —Karen Salmansohn
15. You are special.
“Never love anybody who treats you like you’re ordinary.” —Oscar Wilde
16. You can remember something but not ever want it again.
“I think it’s important to realize that you can miss something, but not want it back.” —Paulo Coelho
17. You have to let go.
“Sooner or later we’ve all got to let go of our past.” —Dan Brown
18. You need to find out who you are.
“One of the best times for figuring out who you are, what you really want out of life? Right after a break-up.” —Mandy Hale
19. It will get better.
“You’ll get through this. And I know it’s impossible to believe right now, but it gets better. Trust me.” —Susane Colasanti
20. You can always chose to make things better.
“Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.” —M. Kathleen Casey
21. Be in a relationship that makes you better than who you are.
“Respect yourself enough to walk away from anyone or anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.” —Unknown
22. You can weather any storm.
“She stood in the storm, & when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails.” —Elizabeth Edwards
23. You will find something better out there.
“Don’t cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won’t let you see the stars.” —Violeta Parra
24. Keep moving forward.
“Every time you thought you couldn’t keep moving forward, you did. Take a moment to appreciate your strength.” —Unknown
25. You have let yourself move on.
“Forgiving you is my gift to you. Moving on is my gift to myself.” —Unknown