No time like the present to make a move.
When we let fear control us, we miss out on so many opportunities, especially the opportunity to find love.
Often times we have our eyes set on a special someone, but we talk ourselves out of expressing our feelings for them. We tell ourselves that we are totally out of their league or that we would make a fool out of ourselves as we struggled to find the right words to say.
So, instead of making a move, we sit in the shadows and fantasize about what could be, accepting deep down that it’ll never happen. As time goes by we complain that we haven’t found love, not realizing that the only thing stopping us, is us. It is only once we realize this that we can move forward and get the things we not only want but deserve.
One thing that a lot of us want is love and we deserve to have it.
As Valentine’s day quickly approaches, there is no time like the present to make your move. The person that you’ve been fantasizing about is right within your reach! Force yourself to rid all of your doubt and focus on the good that can come from taking the first step to get what you want.
In deciding to just go for it, you will learn to valuable lessons. The first lesson being that you can do anything you put your mind to; the second lesson being that nothing is nearly as scary as you make yourself believe it is. One moment of bravery can change your life for the better, but you won’t know if you continue to let fear hold you back.
Here are 25 quotes that will help you muster up the courage to talk to your crush. Don’t miss out on your chance to potentially have a valentine this year.
1. You miss all the shots you don’t take.
“Action is the foundational key to all success.” — Pablo Picasso
2. At least you can say you tried.
“Courage is the commitment to begin without any guarantee of success.” — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
3. Stop being afraid to make a move.
“If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.” — Nora Roberts
4. Tell them how you feel.
“The more you hide your feelings for someone, the more you fall for them.” — Unknown
5. Courage can change your life.
“Sometimes all you need is twenty seconds of insane courage and I promise you something great will come of it.” — Unknown
6. Put it all on the line.
“You can’t get to courage without walking through vulnerability.” — Brene Brown
7. Ask and they shall be yours.
“You get in life what you have the courage to ask for.” — Oprah Winfrey
8. Seize the moment.
“Say it before you run out of time. Say it before it’s too late. Say what you’re feeling. Waiting is a mistake.” — Unknown
9. Secure the bag.
“I know what I want & I’m going to get it.” — Unknown
10. You won’t know if you don’t try.
“Maybe it won’t work out, but maybe seeing if it does will be the best adventure yet.” — Unknown
11. Focus on positive outcomes only.
“Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive about what could go right.” — Unknown
12. The risk might be totally worth it.
“Take a chance. You never know how perfect something might turn out to be.” — Unknown
13. You still have time to get a valentine.
“Do something today that your future self will thank you for.” — Unknown
14. Let your fear lead you to gretaness (and a relationship!)
“Everything worth doing starts with being scared.” — Unknown
15. You can have anyone you want, and that includes your crush.
“Stand up straight and realize who you are.” — Maya Angelou
16. Don’t let the opportunity pass you by.
“Take the risk or lose the chance.” — Unknown
17. The possibility of having something is better than nothing.
“… and even if all we’ll ever be is just friends, I’ll still take that.” — Unknown
18. Shoot your shot.
“Sometimes you have to stop being scared and just go for it. Either it’ll work or it won’t. That’s life.” — Unknown
19. Just open your mouth and see what comes out.
“Stop waiting to do the things you want to do. Today is the day to just go for it.” — Unknown
20. Don’t think about it, just do it.
“Be the girl who just went for it.” — Unknown
21. Take a leap of faith.
“and whatever happens next… happens next.” — Unknown
22. Step outside your comfort zone.
“If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try.” — Seth Godin
23. Take the first step.
” Hi. It’s a short, simple word but it’s how love starts.” — Unknown
24. Go after the person you want.
“Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.” — Michael Jordan
25. You can go from having a crush to a lover in the blink of an eye.
“You’re only one decision away from a totally different life.” — Unknown